Today, at the age of 25, I learned that it is not normal to have absolutely zero sexual desire. All this time, I thought you had to have sex first before developing a sex drive. FML
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Today, I learned that it is not normal to have absolutely zero desire for sex. I’m well into my 20s and not a virgin. FML
Today, after 5 years of no intimate, sexual contact with a woman, I finally got my chance. Unfortunately, I also discovered that I have full-on erectile dysfunction. I'm 23 years old. FML
Today, after months of successfully taking strides to boost my long diminished libido, I found out my girlfriend, who always had a healthy sex drive, has now lost hers. Oh, how the tables have turned. FML
Today, I’ve realized the whole “men are more sexual than women” isn’t true. I have ended up in two long-term relationships with two different men who had zero sex drive, stopped any sort of romantic connection/flirting, and then it felt like I just had a roommate. FML
Today, as a 26 year-old woman, I had my first orgasm. I gave it to myself. None of my long-term relationships even came close. For almost 26 years I thought I would never have one. FML
Today, I realized how fucked I am (not). I'm a 26 year-old virgin waiting for love. No guy my age wants someone inexperienced. The older I get, the more ridiculous I feel. I masturbate way more often than I should and it's like my body is screaming for intimacy. I don't know WTF to do. Maybe I'll be the next 40 year-old virgin. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he doesn't know what it's like to be turned on. Apparently, I've been doing something wrong for the past two years. FML
Today, I've been with my girlfriend for almost six years and its been years since we had sex. I’m only 25. I’ve had a lot of urges and every time I’ve tried to start something she brushes it off. It's to the point where every sex scene I see in a movie makes me sad. FML
Today, I discovered I have a condition that causes loss of feeling in my clitoris during sex. FML
Today, I learned that I don’t need to fake my orgasms, even though I’ve never been given one. FML
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IHaveThePower 18
Sounds like you're asexual. Congratulations! Welcome to the club.
Plop 17
Well, it's not so much that it's not "normal", but indeed, it seems like you have very low to no sex drive. There's no problem with it, but in the event you're worried that it might affect your love life, you may want to talk to a doctor about it.
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Plop 17
Well, it's not so much that it's not "normal", but indeed, it seems like you have very low to no sex drive. There's no problem with it, but in the event you're worried that it might affect your love life, you may want to talk to a doctor about it.
IHaveThePower 18
Sounds like you're asexual. Congratulations! Welcome to the club.
RichardPencil 32
Get your testosterone checked. Libido is largely hormonal.
mccuish 25
Welcome to the asexual club
Royal Sataness 4
definitely see a Dr, because there could be a medical reason for it. but you could also simply be asexual. which is more common than you think, and nothing wrong with that.
Lydmyers 9
Lovely, you could be Asexual... and that is completely normal. Don't feel pressured by others to fake sexual desire if it's not there because people need to respect your (possible) Asexuality. Much love, and good luck. x
Hailstorm92 12
Who tf says it’s not normal?? If you’re not worried about it or care then that’s perfectly fine. If you’ve grown up hearing ppl complain about sex a lot an it was made out to be a bad thing of course you’re not gonna have a sex drive or desire. Or it could be you just don’t find anybody sexy or what not. There’s nothing wrong about not caring about sex. Ppl have made it overrated these days an it don’t mean nothing now. Ppl have less sex it ppl would find meaningful relationships