Today, while planning for my wedding, I can’t stop thinking about my ex. He is my "one", and it’s still so hard to move on. Now I’m marrying someone for stability for my kids, not love, and it is the worst feeling. My heart will forever be in Harrisonville Missouri. He deserves the world, not Texas rain. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my ex-fiancé got married. He left me at the altar last year because the thought of marriage and “taking such a big step” scared him. He’s only been with his new girlfriend for 6 months. Apparently I’m not good enough to marry. FML
Today, my fiance told me that he no longer loves me, that he still has feelings for an ex. The wedding is off and he needs the ring back to give to the right woman. FML
Today, my ex-boyfriend got married. Normally this wouldn’t bother me at all, had his bride not been the girl we constantly argued about all the time during our relationship. The one he “swore on his grandma’s grave he would never see that way.” Oh, and we broke up 7 months ago. FML
Today, I saw on Facebook that my ex of 6 years got married a few days ago. We broke up a year and a half ago because we had different plans; I wanted marriage and kids, and he wanted to “enjoy life and have fun.” Guess I’m not good enough to “enjoy life and have fun” with. FML
Today, the ex who I'm still in love with told me he wishes we could be together, but that first I really need to get over the fact that he already has a wife and kids. FML
Today, I found out about of my ex, who I was with for 6 years, getting married. Normally I wouldn’t care, except she rejected my marriage proposal just about a year ago, saying she wanted to “be single for a while and wasn’t ready.” I can’t help but think what does the other dude have that I don’t have that made her change her mind? FML
Today, my ex-girlfriend got married to a man she met last year. She left me after 8 years together because I told her I wanted to have fun and live my life, and wasn’t ready for marriage. Three years later, I’m not having fun at all. None of my bros wanna make plans because they’d rather be with their wives and kids. FML
Today, my boyfriend said, "I won't marry you, but I want to spend my life with you." When I told him that upset me, he said, "My ex completely changed once we got married, and I like you as you are now." FML
Today, I was supposed to get married to the love of my life. My ex-wife ended up crashing my wedding and created drama. My now-ex-fiancée decided she wants nothing to do with me anymore, and that, "if she wanted baggage, she’d go to an airport.” She walked out of the wedding and blocked my number. FML
Today, finally in a the right state of mind to move on from my ex, she dropped a nuke in my life by stating she's getting married. FML
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awrb 3
He is clearly not your “one” because if that was the case then you would be together. “One”’s love you back. You are setting yourself (& your kids & future husband) up for failure if you are not 100% committed to this marriage. Life is a series of choices. choose to be happy about what you do have, instead of being sad about what you don’t.
Hangryko 32
That poor guy deserves better than you. Call the wedding off.
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awrb 3
He is clearly not your “one” because if that was the case then you would be together. “One”’s love you back. You are setting yourself (& your kids & future husband) up for failure if you are not 100% committed to this marriage. Life is a series of choices. choose to be happy about what you do have, instead of being sad about what you don’t.
Iamthebanzai22 21
There are lots of videos on Youtube about how to get over someone. If your fiance deserves the best, as you say, then give him the best: Your honesty. Call the wedding off, don't make other people the victims of your bad choices.
eellik 12
I think her last two sentences are not about her current fiancé.
Hangryko 32
That poor guy deserves better than you. Call the wedding off.
BurnInDemonFire 39
The **** is this gibberish at the end? Do your fiancé a favor and leave now before he's smothered in more of your lies and breaks when you ask for a divorce because you're convinced you can get back together with your ex. I don't know if your ex is single but there's a reason he's not with you, and your delusions are only going to hurt your fiancé and your kids in the long run. Put them first and walk away.
Brightside86 31
That's rough, maybe go talk to a marriage counselor. In my experience relationships that depend on you learning to love someone eventually never workout.