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Today, two months after forgiving my girlfriend for breaking my heart by cheating on me, I found out that she's cheating again with the same guy. When I confronted her, she basically said I brought it on myself and that I was an idiot for not dumping her the first time. FML
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unless 20
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Clubcan_handlme 9
It sucks that you have a cheating girlfriend, but at the same time, you were playing with fire by keeping her.
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unless 20
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
1PersonIsMyWorld 22
wow well put.
incoherentrmblr 22
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me...
fortune789 17
I think this FML counts as both an FYL and a YDI.
lnheritance 19
Much agreed. I'm honestly in the same predicament as OP. My girlfriend cheated on me, but I'm willing to give her a second chance and everything is going good so far (aren't dating yet). That does suck though OP, you can find much better. Chins up!
justtheotherguy 12
All you need to do is go to nocheatersdate.com & sign up for Joey Grecko's website.. And you'll be amazed soon
Bragi 12
#1 - You put it perfectly. This sucks OP, but consider it a life lesson.
lnheritance 19
Ignore my last post. As of right now, not so good. So more of my sympathy goes to OP.
StaySmexy 18
That sucks
Since1998 20
Not him
dovahconn 12
No shit Sherlock
MissSarcasm01 18
Couldn't you have saved this for the later pages? I'm tired of your obvious ass comments.
syed121417 22
It's obvious but why did it get so many dislikes
Knight0001 19
first
person961 9
Ditch the bitch this time then!
Pat_Tricksta 13
That's not enough, she needs to feel pain. I hate cheating bastards!
Awesomeaxel 24
I have a serious amount of respect for him for forgiving her the first time. I couldn't do it. But F his life for her taking advantage of him.
Hiimhaileypotter 53
#142 - He shouldn't have forgiven her, cheaters usually always cheat again. (Not always).
Awesomeaxel 24
I agree that he shouldn't have. But I still have the respect for him that he was able to
Clubcan_handlme 9
It sucks that you have a cheating girlfriend, but at the same time, you were playing with fire by keeping her.
renjisgirl12 22
I don't think it's always a case of 'playing with fire'. If they genuinely feel bad about it/won't do it again then it's just a case of trust and strength within the relationship to move forward from it. The one who got cheated on needs to evaluate the situation and decide if it's worth the 'risk' to stay with them. Having said this, I was cheated on, I took him back, and then over a year later he left me, so I guess I'm not the best person to give advice on this! I just think that, with some relationships anyway, you don't have to immediately dump them.
Since1998 20
I kind of learned that is they cheat once, they can easily cheat again.
rocker_chick105 31
A family friend of mine dated a man who cheated on her a couple times in college. But she knew she wanted him, and now they're happily married with two kids. While this case probably isn't common, it is possible.
RowanSpirit 9
My husband cheated on me some five years ago. He never has again, and we are still together. Definitely depends on the cheater, and how willing to forgive them you are. Though in this case she's a horrible person and deserves the karma coming to her for deliberately abusing OP's trust.
teentee401 37
In my opinion, if they TRULY cared about you they never would've cheated in the first place. They can apologize all they want but I won't believe it. They obviously weren't thinking of me when they cheated, so why should I believe they suddenly care now?
Dave_Davington 34
I hate to say it, but she does have a point. Staying with a cheater is right up there with sticking your tongue in a light bulb socket.
junkman6 22
Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice.... ALSO "can't turn a ho into a housewife." Yeah sorry OP, that's on you buddy.
xivoricbutterfly 25
Not so my dad cheated on my mother before I was born and she forgave him. He never cheated again oh and he got the other woman pregnant
junkman6 22
*never got caught cheating again. Fixed that for you. Slightly jaded viewpoint I know but in all likelihood it's an honest one.
amayasoma 19
If the person honestly feels bad for what they, they will change. Yes, there are quite a few that are so heartless they continue to do it but there the ones that have regret and do change.
bellebe1998 16
I'm sorry, but YDI by staying with someone who cheated on you...
ELoni_fml 25
Feminism is punching women too
Welshite 40
Or we act like grown-ups and not punch anyone. There's a mature way to handle this. Physical violence isn't it.
silvercamaro 22
I hope for your sake your future spouse doesn't see this
keirookami 11
boobs
Honema 16
**** punt
ohishkabibble 21
#9, feminism is not punching anyone, because nobody deserves physical violence and there are better ways to handle a situation than to violently lash out.
Adam5858 17
Well you cant do anything about certain stupid people but you could have avoided it by not going back.Once a cheater always a cheater
kpopforeverr 11
Do you always have to comment on every single post
Godsofdracos 15
Does it bother you that much? Maybe he enjoys commenting.
Adam5858 17
#60 Yes,yes I do is it annoying you?....Good
acommonman 23
you took the high road by forgiving, but damn, what a bitch