lopsided
This FML is from back in 2014 but it's good stuff
Gainesville, United States
Discrimination
Today, I was informed that my uneven facial features make me seem "untrustworthy." Glad to know my unchangeable physical appearance doubles as a character flaw. FML
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llamarrama01 21
Welcome to the crappy society we live in.
Snake1105 20
Wow that's stupid
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Snake1105 20
Wow that's stupid
Aethyn 2
It not actually. Many people associate certain features a person has with behaviours. It's a psychological thing that nearly everyone does, but I guess not everyone is aware of it.
niallo 23
I have to agree. I was on jury duty and was in the jury pool. Knowing next to nothing about the case, I took one look at the guy and thought GUILTY (I wasn't called to serve). It does happen, and there's nothing you can do about it.
Danne696 14
There's also an opposite to it called the "halo effect". It is the fact that most people associate people that are good looking with a number of different good characteristics.
sandormatyi 25
i wouldn't call it stupid, it's a shortcut our brain does to be able to react quicker in possibly dangerous situations and it has helped us to be the dominant race we are today. it's like calling the replication mechanism of viruses or the teeth structure of sharks 'stupid'.
llamarrama01 21
Welcome to the crappy society we live in.
Pesticides 19
It's called physiognomy, it goes way back into greek poetry. Society has always been crappy.
cakefete2 31
It just means that what's on the inside has to be extra good.
trellz17 19
Not necessarily. Just saying.
reneetlovesyou 30
Don't worry, OP. I went to school without makeup the other day and someone told me I looked sad. I was like "...it's just my face."
Cass_x 22
Ahh yes, because looking "sad" is the same as looking untrustworthy.
reneetlovesyou 30
The point was that people's appearances don't always reflect how they actually are. But the sarcasm was appreciated.
Cass_x 22
Still not the same. You looked sad to some people because you didn't wear any make up, and they were probably used to see you with make up. The OP was called untrustworty by someone because of how her face is shaped.. Not the same situation imo
Senorangelo 10
Were you sad because you were without make-up?
Mauskau 36
If you wear enough makeup that you look completely different without it then you need to wear less.
Enslaved 38
That's not necessary true. I usually wear just eyeliner on my top lid only and a light pink lip gloss. And if I don't wear those 2 simple things, I've had people ask me if I'm sick?
RedPillSucks 33
but that may be simply because theyve never seen you without it. when my kids firdt saw me after id shaved bald, they had no id we a who i was.
DropTheDaggerxx 31
@33 Why? I hate when people try to act high and mighty based on how much/little makeup they wear. It literally doesn't affect anyone else but the person wearing it, so trying to police others' appearances is ridiculous. Half the fun of makeup is the ability to do whatever you want to your appearance.
trellz17 19
Prove to them that you are trustworthy. Or just ignore them, I don't give a shit.
feven 32
How does a lopsided face even make you look untrustworthy? Some people just feel the need to point out any possible flaw in others
JKPwnage 27
As a teen with Asperger's Syndrome, I approve this comment
reneetlovesyou 30
It's statistically proven that people with more symmetrical features are more "beautiful" and people deemed attractive are viewed by others as more approachable or trustworthy.
Corgidan 12
I prefer the logic of "I don't trust anyone a dog wouldn't trust."
ColonelCusswords 24
Well... you can always go into business as a supervillian
Zebediabolical 45
The henchmen won't even trust her so that's probably out too.
Exodiafinder687 58
She could be Two-Face's version of Harley Quinn.
Zman2017 18
So... WHY do you care what those jerks think?
MegaExplosives 17
who would click "you deserve it"???
reneetlovesyou 30
Maybe people trying to get the YDI badge?
lovecottoncandy 23
It could also just be an accident. Sometimes when I'm scrolling I accidentally brush on Ydi when I really meant to press fml. The options are just so close together especially if you have big fingers.
PenguinBitch 44
That's really ignorant. I wouldn't care less what those people say.