The L Word

By Humiliated & Heart-Broken - 30/07/2014 04:41 - United States - Fort Worth

Today, I told my boyfriend that I loved him for the first time. The L-word is probably one of the only things I'm scared to say, so what did he do? He stared at me blankly before making a farting noise with his mouth and asking if he could go get Chicken Express for dinner. FML
I agree, your life sucks 44 961
You deserved it 5 211

Same thing different taste

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He probably was just taken by surprise.

Whether its FYL or YDI depends on how long you've been dating

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You mean your "ex boyfriend " it's over !! so get over it babe, he's just playing with you & your emotions

It's not over just cause of that... It's pathetic that people can quit that easily in a relationship cause of one imperfection or a bump in the road. Was it an ideal response no, but doesn't mean you give up on him, otherwise there was no reason to say she loved him in the first place.

It's scary for him too or anyone really.

I don't blame him for putting his love for chicken express first. Girls will come and go but chicken express is forever! Best sweet tea in the world!!

It isn't the end of the world. A guy doesn't have to immediately say it back, neither does a girl. He was surprised by it, and that was his mechanism to deal. Give it time girl [:

graphicstyle7 17

Sure, you can say this too soon in a relationship... but his response was very, very disrespectful. I don't know how old you are, but if someone is that immature, he's not ready for a serious relationship. If you want a real, mutual, loving, grown-up kind of relationship, you need to look elsewhere. Being in love alone sucks. The best thing to do is start dating other people casually. Seriously, I know from years of experience.

Axel5238 29

Agreed, being ready is one thing but a lot of misunderstandings from how it was said. If he said nothing or just said it was too soon for him to say, but he appreciated it. I doubt the OP would be as upset if he had done that. The immature dismissal of her feelings is what stings for her the most.

Just give him time, OP. If it's meant to be, he'll say it. I think it was just unexpected.

Maybe he isn't there yet, at least he didn't lie

He may be that awkward guy, just take him to chicken express and he may say it when you have a mouth full of chicken and when you least expect it!