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Are you called Ross Geller?

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The sad truth is us guys sold ourseleves out....

I mean why did he invent a strappon twice the size of ours...?

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yah ...true ... good thing OP , you found out your so called gf was a les ...

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she could also be bi

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If she was with him chances are is that she's bi ;D

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Oh yes. I'm sure those lesbians would LOVE to have a penis in their relationship. Cause you know, lesbians just crave the dick.

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It is just a warm animated dildo, fully loaded! Furthermore, they could be bi. Never lose hope that they could be bi.

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Sounds to me like they are bisexuals. But whatever the case, life isn't porn. Girls who like girls don't run around wanting to have threesomes with guys, especially not their exes.

As for the OP, that really sucks.

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Well apparently the girl was with the guy before. Could be that she was fucking him, so I don't think she'd be totally opposed to having a dick on the side.

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For your information threesomes like that DO happen in the real world

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Of course they happen, I'm not that oblivious. But suggesting a threesome (joking or not) the moment you hear someone is lesbian/bi is simply immature.

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Oh i'm not disagreeing with that, but tbh it would'v been worth it for the look on their faces. You gotta laugh it of and get out the situation with your head up high

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xCrackerx,

The girlfriend was straight or bi until "Today." She liked his dick for while. We don't know whether the "female friend" is bi or a full-out lesbian. It's not unreasonable for him to see if he can insert himself into a threesome with them. The question becomes exactly which holes he will be allowed to insert himself into.

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Perdix, it's not possible for a person to change from straight to lesbian - it's not a choice or a phase. There are three possible scenarios:

A) She's been bi all along and he didn't know about this
B) She didn't realize her sexual orientation till now
C) She has always known she's lesbian/bi but until now, she's been trying to deny it and convince herself that she's into guys - it happens a lot

But whatever the case, down with the degrading threesome -comments.

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Taija,

Your three scenarios are not mutually exclusive. Also, I don't believe that there are many lesbians who pretend to have boyfriends to appease society (it used to be more common for gay men to have girlfriends for show, but that seems to be declining.)

Nevertheless, if you are supportive of someone expressing true bisexuality, there are going to have to do threesomes, one way or another. You evidently favor the TiVo time-shifted threesome where she has her lesbian and straight encounters at separate times. It's not fair to call it "degrading" when I am simply suggesting that she multi-task! ;)

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I do believe there are still plenty of gay women and men who are in straight relationships because they fear what they are or what society thinks, but since a lot of them might never tell a soul, it's not possible for us to prove it one way or another.

In any case, good to see that you're not taking this too seriously. I personally am bisexual and tend to get a bit too heated when it comes to defending the LGBT community. :P

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Taija,

I don't know what life in Finland is like, but America is slowly growing up about gay issues. Even though Texas has a bigoted redneck stereotype, we in Houston (the 4th largest city in the US) may elect an openly gay woman as mayor next week in a run-off election (she got the most votes in the general election last month and our conservative daily newspaper is endorsing her). The progress is slow, but it is going forward.

Personally, I am straight, but I like justice.

So, if you are bisexual, am I completely wrong about the time-shifted threesome?

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Overall, Finland is more liberal about homosexuality than America. And I'm not making an assumption; I know the US quite well, since I visit it a few times a year. We allow same-sex registered partnership all over the country and have had several openly gay ministers in our parliament. And we have very little religious fundamentalism so for the most part, gays are left in peace here.

Gays are surely being more accepted each year in all western countries, but I stand my ground - I believe there are still plenty of people who hide it, especially in more religious families. I know people whose families have disowned them after they found out that person is gay, so the fear is not irrational.

And all bisexuals don't necessarily have sex with both genders, especially since there are more straight people in the world than gays/bisexuals, and therefore it's more likely to end up with someone straight.
Bisexuality doesn't mean needing to have both, it just means that when looking for someone, you look for the personality (or looks, if it's nothing serious), not the gender.

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Life is so unfair!

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it is possible for a girl to go from straight to lesbian. that's what happened to me three years ago an I havnt looked back once.

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Did you mean "off" the dick?

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"Only loose girls have threesomes". Fuck off on judging other people, you narrow minded lard-arse. If she has sex with a bloke and then with a woman she is bi, crap head.

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#27 - I'd agree with everything you said...if you didn't have to throw in the fat=insult thing at the end. Now who's judgmental?

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Agreed, muy bad.

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#24 also had a point in that there's plenty of details we don't know here. We don't know how long OP was with his girlfriend before this happened, we don't know that they ever had sex together, and we don't know who was more serious in the relationship, although I suppose it's safe to say OP was.

I personally never knew I was bi until I fell for another girl, so I don't believe it's a conscious choice. Also, what does the "Only loose girls have threesomes" comment have to do with whether or not she's bi?

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Being a lesbian/bi is not being "open minded about going the other way" - it's simply a sexual orientation that you're born with. And sexuality has nothing to do with how open you're about threesomes etc, that's a matter of personal preference.

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And yet they're still not as bad as judgmental straight assholes.

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You need to be euthanized

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#46 fuck you!
if you didn't have us you wouldn't exist! most women could probably kick your ass cuz we are SO not weaker than u and u needa get over yourself. equality is so not bullshit. and if you ever said that to a girl in PERSON, you'd definitely get a punch in the face. So watch yourself sexist jackass

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#46 i have a feeling u r an asswhole oh wait u are! man women are better probably not stronger but smarter we are! man u r a fuckin loser!! u sexist demon!!

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I think COBRAMORPH has succeeded in his mission, which was purely to annoy people like you. Relax, he is just trying to be annoying.

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#50 My mother is a decent person who unlike most of the sluts in this country is still together with my father, & raised us with proper morals. Same as both my grandmothers. My sister is also a decent lady with morals, not some cheap slut who at 12 sucks cock in the classroom. We all know to wait until marriage. As for my wife, do I cheat on her? No. Do I treat her or anybody like crap? Not unless they deserve it. But I have made it quite clear to her from day one, I have plenty of freinds. I do NOT want or need any more friends. There is only one thing that I want from her, & thats the girl part. You think thats wrong? Too bad. I dont care. I work, make decent money, she can stay at home & be a housewife & someday mother.

And just to show that I am not a sexist pig, if she had my job, then I would VOLENTEER like she agreed 7 yrs ago, to be a house husband, keep it clean, & raise the kids.

#51 Sure, I may say stuff to get a rise out of people. But most every thing I say is how I feel. I exagerate for fun, but I dont feel like typing out huge essays every time some stupid wo/man acts like a slut.