Today, I'm realizing the woman I've been in love with for 8 years has become completely disinterested in me. I can't even connect on a basic, "How was your day?" level without her her zoning out or getting lost in her phone, only to apologize when I say something and then not even ask what I had to say. We have 2 kids now. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I was finally forced to accept that after an almost 16 year relationship and 14 year marriage, it's pretty much over. After begging and pleading with her for the last few years to show any love and affection, she still refuses entirely. I'm only here for the kids now. FML
Today, my wife admitted she loves me as a father to our children, but is no longer attracted to me. FML
Today, the love of my life told me she no longer wants to be with me. Two kids and a happy life thrown away. Today I realised that nothing is forever. FML
Today, it hit me hard that the girl I love is not still not interested after a year. She's now ghosting me, and she hangs out with my friends daily. She constantly talks about dating in front of me and only text/calls me when I post shorts/stories hanging out with other girls, just to pull me back in. FML
Today, I love my partner but also have negative thoughts as well. She stopped being interested in me about 6 months into our relationship. We have been together for 12 years. We have made love on 3 different occasions in the last 4 years. FML
Today, I told my girlfriend of 9 months that I was ready for marriage and start having kids. She hasn't called or texted me since. FML
Today, my wife told me I’m not worth the trouble. She’d rather overextend herself for complete strangers than spend any time with me. I should've seen this coming. Even before we got married, her favourite line was, “You already had children with someone else, we’ll never be a family.” I tried for nothing. FML
Today, I got a call from a girl I fell madly in love with 8 years ago. She disappeared from my life with no trace. Turns out she just finalized her divorce, has 2 wild kids, packed on 75 lbs, has $25,000 in debt and is taking meds to keep from going crazy. Now she wants me back. FML
Today, it's been a year since the girl I'm madly in love with completely cut off all communication with me. She called me crying a year ago, saying she couldn't do the long-distance, unaware I was planning on moving closer to her. Not once has she reached out, and has a girlfriend now. I think about her every night. FML
Today, my wife can't be bothered to do anything that isn't work, talk about her work, and sit on the sofa. Then she complains that I don't show any affection, when she can be bothered to even talk to me. FML
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Iifa 7
Stagnation of relationship... It happens. Go back to beginning and rediscover
Crowned Sataness 12
you have to start back from scratch. it's not gonna be easy. start taking her out on dates. make sure you're helping with housework, and the kids, without being asked. she's probably tired, help ease her burdens if you're not already. whether she works or whether she's a SAHM she doesn't get breaks, it never stops for her
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Iifa 7
Stagnation of relationship... It happens. Go back to beginning and rediscover
Brightside86 31
Most common year for a divorce is year 7. Hope you figure it out.
Dana Triganza 9
How much do you help out with the kids? How exhausted is she?
RichardPencil 32
You should just let her go. Your wife would not be happy and you're lucky to have gotten away with it for 8 years.
Crowned Sataness 12
you have to start back from scratch. it's not gonna be easy. start taking her out on dates. make sure you're helping with housework, and the kids, without being asked. she's probably tired, help ease her burdens if you're not already. whether she works or whether she's a SAHM she doesn't get breaks, it never stops for her
core01 30
I said YDI becos men will use women as domestic servants, maids, full time nannies, and sex dolls, but then men are shocked later that the wife is completely over the bullshit dynamics.