gunnerette
Larnaca, Cyprus
Today, I was about to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time. As things got heated, he broke down crying. I assumed it was just anxiety so I hugged him and told him it's alright and that it didn't matter, we'd try another time. Half an hour later, he confessed that he's actually gay. FML
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ihpp 22
just be supportive. you may be the first person he's told.
DarksideDoll 31
FYL, but F his life too. It does suck that your relationship's essentially over, but if you care about him, try to do your best to support him. It sounds like he's either fighting with it, or has kept it in. I hope things work out for both of you OP!
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saadifti 11
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That made me crack up!! Hope you solve it nicely!
mohamed_H 21
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I don't get it like why would he date OP in the first place if he is gay
Exodiafinder687 58
He was probably in denial about who he is and was hoping that dating a girl would "fix" him. He'll be a lot happier once he accepts it.
feven 32
I think he figured it out during their relationship.
nature_girl_08 14
Maybe because of the the fact there's still a surprisingly large number of people in this country who think that homosexuality is wrong/just a phase and teach their children as much without even stopping to think they might be gay. It's possible he was trying to force himself to be straight in order not to disappoint parents that wouldn't support him if he wasn't
TheCookieComet 23
Pray the gay away with him. Good bonding time
MortenM 17
Since it is Cyprus, him dating a girl even though he's gay, will have a lot to do with the culture. Church has a pretty big say and it's all about appearances down here
Futacy 30
I don't want to sound like an uptight douche, #1, but you really found this funny? A man finally his homosexuality to his girlfriend (now ex), of which he's been in denial, is kind of a serious thing. This situation warrants support, not ridicule.
littleteapot 21
I think #1 commented on the wrong post.
caleb_9756 14
#44, on an unrelated note, I read your entire comment in stewie's voice because of your profile pic. Just wanted to share that
just_killin_time 14
Your initial reaction shows that you are a caring and kind person. You rock :) Don't let it upset you. I hope you can still be friends with the guy and that you find somebody soon
KxHoneyCombxP 24
#1, I thought it was pretty funny too
ihpp 22
just be supportive. you may be the first person he's told.
biebahood 15
I agree with #2 analysing the scene, I believe he really needs emotional support right now n it would be great if you could provide him that since he has trusted you (n the fact he dated you too) if everything goes right, you'll gain the coolest guy best friend like I did in a similar situation (:
madazphotography 11
Well he's missing out on something good!!!
EatUrGreens 20
You're an ass and a disgrace. Go fix yourself, moron.
justinemalang1 14
haaa.. haha... sorry
42069666 18
it sucks that your boyfriend is gay, but try not to be too down about it, you may be the first he's told and he'll need the support
RhineBl 17
good luck op.
DarksideDoll 31
FYL, but F his life too. It does suck that your relationship's essentially over, but if you care about him, try to do your best to support him. It sounds like he's either fighting with it, or has kept it in. I hope things work out for both of you OP!
awesomesausage 14
what does OP mean?
redstone7693 29
people down voted the guy for asking a question, wtf. some people on here are real pricks.
manbugpig 5
Just be supportive pl are, I know from experience that being closeted is very rough and then the courage to come out takes a lot of strength. So I ask that you support him.
salyhahaha 13
Don't worry, you may have lost your boyfriend, but you've probably gained a best friend.
1dvos_grl3 21
Just let him know you're still there for him. and hey, having a gay friend is always fun!!