Today, I realized I need to start hitting the gym, when my boyfriend actually utilized my love handles during sex. FML
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Yes I am aware that "that's what they're there for." I personally do not want them there. They make me self conscious. I'm choosing to go to the gym on my own and not for my boyfriend. He tells me I'm beautiful regardless of how I feel about myself. Maybe he can fun something new to grab onto though! Haha! Thanks for the comments though y'all! :)
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Kain713 14
That's what they're for....
Bevspeaks 11
That's why their called "love handles", but if you feel the need to improve your body, do it because you want to, not because you have to
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Kain713 14
That's what they're for....
Ch_rae5 19
Yup there's a reason they're called "love handles"!
meepmerp 20
Hm, I never thought about that
\ 28
They are there, but they're not meant to be used... Just like Nutcracker dolls aren't actually meant for cracking nuts.
IworkAt711 14
I actually prefer women to have some weight on them. I'm not really into skinny girls.
SarcasticShade 16
Whether op works out or not I'm sure she'll get a handle on it.
viper8608 9
that is exactly what nutcrackers are for.
bubblyhayley 16
most me like em!! :-) embrace it
wallandpiece 16
47, I don't think women care what you prefer.
raininginseattle 9
I thought that's what ears were for?
IworkAt711 14
71- My girlfriend does, and that's all that really matters to me.
wallandpiece 16
I feel bad for her. I'd hate to be in a relationship where I'm constantly worrying about whether or not my behaviour or appearance fits in with my partner's preferences.
kitkatmiaow 21
Or, she would be happy to knew that he finds her beautiful ...
RustlingSoul 26
first comment...or not.
Despereaux 15
Don't be ashamed OP, embrace it! I'm sure you look fine.
J_Kertz 14
#3's right... If you're comfortable in your own skin, then that's all that matters =)
Ins0mau 20
This attitude is why there are so many fat and unhealthy westerners these days.
RedPillSucks 33
Or why there are so many models who look like they could double as a skeleton at a halloween party. Please don't generalize. There are healthy people of a wide range of sizes. Just because she has love handles doesn't mean she's unhealthy.
kitkatmiaow 21
#58... Idiot.
Bevspeaks 11
That's why their called "love handles", but if you feel the need to improve your body, do it because you want to, not because you have to
Obscurix 5
"Im so obese, I pant and heave and gasp as i walk up 3 flights of stairs." "I cant run as fast as a 50 year old woman who is in shape." "But Im too lazy to see a problem with that so here I go to get fast food for the 4th time this week." here in America qe may have the option to be obese and not care but that doesnt mean its right or healthy.
Welshite 40
Most guys like love handles. That doesn't mean you're fat.
LaurenLo 17
Yeah it doesn't seem like your guy has a problem with them! You gotta love what you've got!
Pareidolia101 15
Am I the only one here who doesn't know what a love handle is?
TheDrifter 24
It's that bit of fat that builds up on the side of the torso. Most everyone who isn't underweight has at least a bit of fat there and when there's enough, it makes a convenient hold in many sexual positions.
JMichael 26
Yes. Yes you are 29.
RedPillSucks 33
@TheDrifter. School is in session... How many sexual situations can utilize love handles? *gets out pad and paper*
corporatescoundr 25
68 got me thinking about what 31 said... And really there's very few positions, besides fellatio positions, where they couldn't be used. I'm going to utilize them more now! Thanks 31!
BCboneless 6
Love handles are super hot!
ThatFancyPenn 18
That's a story I haven't heard before!
martin8337 36
Maybe he loves you that way. Love handles might be a fetish , so take advantage of it. He may be a one in million type of guy.
jkmartinjk 16
I don't know if it's one in a million. Lots of people just on this FML have said they like love handles...
omgimdying 15
that's where they get the name! don't be ashamed of your body
juarezj96 12
Hence the name "love handles"
iknowiwantyou 13
why would you want to get rid of something that can come in handy?
awkwardloveannie 28
maybe it makes op feel unattractive?