Sansa
Velp, Netherlands
Today, I had sex for the first time with my first boyfriend. We broke up 6 years ago. FML
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Sansa_fml 38
OP here. Just wanted to make clear that I wasn't drunk and he wasn't either. I still like this guy. Every time I see him I'm falling in love again. Point is that I'm really affraid this wil not work out (I hope it does, but still) And i'm not the type of girl who has sex with anyone this easy, so I'm really confused what to do with it. I guess I'll find out.
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Bquillero16 18
Well that's what I call taking it slow lol
james98e 15
So did you have sex with your second before your first?
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zsaddayz 16
Well that's cool
Cass_x 22
So you lost your virginity to your ex boyfriend? Of 6 years ago? That's uhm.. Interesting. Ydi for having sex with someone you broke up with. Fyl because my guess is that you're still not over him after all this time :/
nicehotcupoftea 13
She may not have lost her virginity to him... Ambiguous wording. It could be that it was just her first time with him as opposed to her first time ever. Not saying you're wrong btw!
elusiveshame 22
Your comments are based on conjecture; she didn't say she broke up with him, or that she lost her virginity. I don't get why that is so hard to understand. Quit making assumptions.
kmaheynoway 25
it clearly states 'we broke up six years ago' I don't get why this is so hard to understand
Metal_Chick 15
I had my first boyfriend during sophomore year in high school. I wasn't ready for sex then and he never pushed the subject, so we simply never had sex. That doesn't mean I wouldn't jump his bones today, 8 years later, if I'm still as attracted to him today as I was back then. It all depends if the situation is right and both parties partake in the decision.
Cass_x 22
Maybe it's just me but I'd never have sex with one of my exes. We broke up for a reason, so having sex with them is one of the last things I'd do.
gracehi 33
I never dated in high school, but my understanding is that high school relationships often end not because the two people no longer get along, but because circumstances, such as going to different colleges or moving out of state for work, separate the two and they simply drift apart. Perhaps that is the situation for OP.
syed121417 22
Breaking isn't always crying and messy emotions. Maybe it was neutral. And even if it wasn't, 6 years a a very long time for something to rekindle and I really don't see a problem with that.
LennyComa 39
I'm sorry what? Was it a drunken fumble or do you still have feelings for him? Also I think most people look back on their first time as not that great anyway so hopefully you can put that behind you and on to better things.
iAmPaul 49
Follow-up please!
PraparAnis 19
Was it good?
kyuubi1 14
well at least you got some.
Scarylizard1798 23
Good job! Let's light that spark up again ?
mylifebitches666 18
Ydi op, next time learn to say no and only say yes when you are ready. Then you won't have this problem again. (regretting to have sex)
syed121417 22
She never said she regretted it. She said it was with her ex, yeah, but that's probably because she thinks that she couldn't get laid by anyone else.
Sigilwen 24
or maybe the FML part was waiting so long to get the chance with him? doubt it was because she thought she couldn't get some one else but still care about him and wasn't ready then but was now?
vikky538 29
that's called back to square one...
Jst4kicks 16
well as long as y'all were both single and not cheating on anyone I guess...