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Today, I found out my best friend was cheating on her boyfriend. After confronting her boyfriend and showing him proof, he responded with denial and didn't believe me. Now my whole circle of friends not only think I'm trying to start a rumor, but that I'm a home wrecker. FML

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deathstroke990 22

if she's your best friend, why not approach her about it first? instead of directly going to the boyfriend

This is usually a lose-lose situation. Although, I don't know why you confronted the boyfriend instead of your best friend. She's the one cheating, and should be responsible for admitting the truth to her boyfriend.

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Not your circus, not your monkeys...no good can come from getting involved at all.

Damn I was gonna say that hah

Maybe the OP feels awful that her friends boyfriend is getting ****** around like that?

ndnpride88 25

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Prolly should've went to her first. Maybe she had a good reason to even though it's wrong regardless. Hopefully you don't lose all your friends over that. Good luck OP

I like your optimistic thinking but to be honest their is no reason that makes cheating ok

Cheating and understandable are two different things entirely.

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If she's cheating on him it's THEIR problem, not yours. In situations like this your better off staying at the sidelines and keeping your mouth shut. Because if they turn around and reconcile it's going to be your fault.

I disagree. I would want someone to tell me if I was being cheated on. Plus, op could be friends with the boyfriend and a friend tells if they know they're being cheated on, in my opinion.

@40 I agree with you. If I were being cheated on and found out that my friend knew and didn't tell me I'd reconsider the friendship.

I see where your coming from but still it isn't any of OP's business to get involved. If anything it was better to hear it from the friend than op because now if the boyfriend forgives the friend, OP is going to look like the one who started it

And the words their gonna say are "she tried to break us up!" BEEN THERE DONE THAT!

I agree with you #15. That has happened to me before, all I wanted to do was the right thing but then I get blamed for it. I learned my lesson years ago!

So you rather they not know their partners unfaithful and doesn't care enough about them to not cheat and could be exposing them to diseases?

If your friends say that, you have stupid friends. It's not your fault she cheated on him. It's the friends fault for cheating. You didn't break them up, her actions did

If your friends are willing to distrust you that easily then you have the wrong group of friends.

TheRationalOne 11

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If she's your best friend then you are a shitty best friend and you deserve your friends hatred.

Let me get this straight.... You're saying that OP is a terrible person for trying to look out for the other when their girlfriend is cheating on them and thus deserves scorn from their other friends? You aren't living up to that username of yours

no in fact 17 YOUR the shitty one for bagging on the poor OP. it's not their ******* fault their friend cheated, they couldn't have known their best friend would cheat now would they.

scottishoatmeal 22

At least you tried to do the right thing

The right thing would be to mind her own business.

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Wow she is your best friend, sisters before misters. Although it is wrong to cheat, you betrayed your best friend by telling the boyfriend. You talk to her about it and stay out of it! If they are both your friends you still stay out of it! The only time you tell is if your friend is being cheated on by someone who is not your friend. You are a terrible best friend. Honestly you are not trustworthy and if all your friends see it that way, they are absolutely right!

If that is your actual viewpoint then you have no soul

Wyrmflight 13

**** that, if my best friend cheats on someone she's done being my best friend. It's a sign she's a terrible person, with few exceptions.

OP friend cheated on her boyfriend and is now letting the whole group of friends turn against her to still try to hide it. how is OP the one that isn't trustworthy?

Just because it rhymes doesn't mean it's true.

TheRationalOne 11

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Atleast someone sees it the way I do! You know they are all lieing in the comments right? They are just trying to brown nose the **** out of op.

Suck up? To someone we'll never meet? A complete stranger? We don't care about OP on a personal level. No one here does. Why should we? Get a clue, 69.

Best. Response. Ever. #89 :D

69, get a life. if you think that people really have that point of view to kiss ass of someone we'll never meet then get a ******* reality check. you'll never make it in life with that way of thinking idiot.

Badkarma4u 17

You learned a good lesson OP never involve yourself in other people's affairs. If that was indeed your best friend, you should have, at most, talked to them. This situation only gets worse as you get older and your friends have homes and kids.

Cheater spotted!

FalloutScrolls 25

Yet again, proof that no good deed goes unpunished.

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Stsy out of other people's business, nobody will ever thank you for butting in, no matter how good your intentions are. Ever.

if someone came to me with proof my SO was cheating I would certainly thank them