Today, eight months into our marriage, my husband decided to let me know he never wanted kids so he had a vasectomy years ago. He seemed surprised he hadn’t mentioned it before, like ever. I love him but I don’t like him very much right now. In fact, I don’t like him at all right now. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, after months of my fiancé begging me to have a baby with him, I found out I’m pregnant. He doesn’t want a baby anymore. FML
Today, my husband told me he'd changed his mind and no longer wants children. We already have two kids. FML
Today, I found out my wife is pregnant. The problem is she convinced me to get a vasectomy two years ago. FML
Today, my husband of 12 years announced that he wants a divorce and that he hadn't liked me in YEARS. FML
Today, I found out that the reason I hadn't gotten pregnant yet was because my husband had a vasectomy after the birth of his son. He even had the nerve to continously tell me, "it'll happen soon, baby" and let me believe we were trying. FML
Today, I found out that the reason I hadn't gotten pregnant yet was because my husband had a vasectomy after the birth of his son. He even had the nerve to continously tell me, "it'll happen soon, baby" and let me believe we were trying. FML
Today, five years after the birth of our last child, my husband still hasn't gotten the vasectomy he swore he would get. He wouldn't let me get my tubes tied, because it was "the least he could do," but when I ask about it, I'm a nag. FML
Today, I found out that the man I just married doesn't want to have children. We had this conversation multiple times with no problems before getting married, but now he would "rather die" than have children, because according to him, they would ruin his life. FML
Today, I ran into my ex at the mall. He’s married, with a 2 year-old. Three years ago he ended our 6-year relationship because he said he didn’t believe in marriage and kids. Sorry for not being good enough to achieve those things with. FML
Today, after two years of dating and my boyfriend knowing I hate kids and don’t want any, he surprised me with his 4 year-old daughter, thinking I would change my mind. I immediately dumped him, leaving him at the mall we were shopping at. FML
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TomeDr 25
If you went into the marriage wanting children and he deceived you by not telling you about the vasectomy, that’s grounds for annulment.
Rake 18
ouch, this is majorly sucks. More for him not telling you beforehand than anything else. I mean some people can't have kids, but there are ways around it. But knowing you wanted kids and not telling you is horrible
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Comments (6)
Rake 18
ouch, this is majorly sucks. More for him not telling you beforehand than anything else. I mean some people can't have kids, but there are ways around it. But knowing you wanted kids and not telling you is horrible
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
Did he know? If he did, he's definitely an arse. But if they never had a conversation about kids, this is kinda on both of them (although probably more on him since he actually had an operation to prevent himself having kids).
Rake 18
he had a vasectomy how could he not know? And talking about kids or not, it's not something you hide from future wife/husband
Hangryko 32
We need more context. Did you talk about having kids before you married him?
TomeDr 25
If you went into the marriage wanting children and he deceived you by not telling you about the vasectomy, that’s grounds for annulment.
FluffythePink 23
That's kinda Need to know information. I'd be looking into the annulment thing just on the principle of the lie, let alone anything else. If he's lied about this, what else is he lying about?
emmalou 19
straight to jail! Sign the divorce papers
xxWTFxx1981 23
Did you ever have the kid discussion. If not you did it to yourself and its more your fault then his because he doesn't want kids so why would he bring it up.