Today, I found out my girlfriend talks to around 18 other men for fun. She says she loves me more, but I told her to prove it, so I took her phone and deleted the social media accounts that she made just for these men. Now I'm a "toxic controlling monster" because I don't let her chat with random men. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my girlfriend called me a "controlling, overbearing psychopath." What did I do? I found out her best friend is trying to persuade her to cheat on me and I demanded she cut her friend off. I'm better off single, I know, but it still hurts. FML
Today, I found out, after months of being made to think I'm crazy, that my girlfriend has a complete online presence across 10+ cam/OnyFans/websites/Telegram, etc. It's my biggest trigger, my previous partner did the same on a much bigger scale. She denied it to the point of me moving out. FML
Today, I found out my girlfriend is talking to some guy from across the country. When I ask about it, she claims, "Oh he's just a friend, and won't talk to him anymore." Now she's doing it secretly and deleting messages. She has kids, and I care for them and her, but I don't know what to do. FML
Today, I "hacked" my girlfriend's phone and found out she's been cheating on me for the last 6 months. She's pissed at me because I hacked her phone and invaded her privacy. FML
Today, I found out that my girlfriend still hangs out with her "abusive, violent, psychotic, misogynistic, manipulative" ex. I told her to block him and she pitched a mega tantrum. Now I'm single again. FML
Today, I dumped my girlfriend because she frequently wouldn't answer my texts or phone calls, and not call or message back for days. I felt that bringing it up made me a control freak. I couldn't take it anymore. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years told me I was being too obsessive. This is the guy who has gone through my phone two separate times and deleted all of my male contacts. FML
Today, my wife forced me to delete a female friend’s number off my phone because she’s jealous of our friendship. She then showed me a demonstration of what will happen if I contact her again, with a photo she got from her Facebook, gasoline, and a match to “make sure we understand each other.” FML
Today, my girlfriend got into my Facebook account and changed our relationship status to single, just to see which of my friends would "like" it. After revealing to me what she did, she now says I can no longer be friends with anyone who liked it. FML
Today, my (now ex) boyfriend and I had a fight, during which he said, "This is why I talk to other girls." I called him out for admitting to cheating and he told me I was toxic. FML
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mayaklast 12
Well, she's right : she's an adult, she can talk to whoever she wants and being your girlfriend doesn't mean she can't talk with other guys and have friends (don't you talk with women other than your girlfriend?). You don't give any details about what she talked about with these guys. If it's of a romantic / sexual nature, breaking up seems advisable. If it's not, just suck it up and try to find friends or hobbies of your own.
swmr4life 9
Well, it pretty much shows that you don’t trust her. You should’ve had her delete them OR trust that nothing is going on. I understand how her actions are portrayed as emotional cheating. If she doesn’t seem to understand why you want her loyalty then Get out!
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swmr4life 9
Well, it pretty much shows that you don’t trust her. You should’ve had her delete them OR trust that nothing is going on. I understand how her actions are portrayed as emotional cheating. If she doesn’t seem to understand why you want her loyalty then Get out!
kfchicken 31
The fact that she made accounts "Just for these men" is very suspicious. regardless, I would actually recommend breaking up in this situation. not something I say often but either shes cheating or you have large differences values which is hard for even the closest of couples to overcome.
demix_fml 32
There is only one side of the story here and we don’t know what’s being embellished, but going on your partners phone and deleting personal contacts, is possessive and scary. If he feels like she is being emotionally abusive then he needs to get out of the relationship.
bloopaloop 27
She’s a ho. Emotionally, if nothing else. Some guys are cool dating hoes. Most aren’t. I’m not and sounds like you’re not.
123Puppy 33
Yea, she had no right to do that. You should dump her.
rebelwithmouseyhair 18
Wow looks like we've found a worse controller!
mayaklast 12
Well, she's right : she's an adult, she can talk to whoever she wants and being your girlfriend doesn't mean she can't talk with other guys and have friends (don't you talk with women other than your girlfriend?). You don't give any details about what she talked about with these guys. If it's of a romantic / sexual nature, breaking up seems advisable. If it's not, just suck it up and try to find friends or hobbies of your own.
kfchicken 31
not being ok with taking too the other sex send to mostly be an issue with older folks, and it's an issue I don't have. The issue is that she made the accounts just for those men by the sound of it.
Marius 7
I had one of those girlfriends. Liking my (girl) classmate's picture is considered cheating but if I say something about her DMing and hitting on other guys I was toxic and insecure.
RichardPencil 32
You are a toxic controlling monster. She's not chatting with random men but a carefully-curated list of those that please her. You're too insecure for her. You need to find a less interesting girl who wants to put up with your shit 24/7.
Brightside86 31
If sitcoms have taught me anything, you need to create 18 different social media profiles and catfish your gf. It's the only way.
JasonThorn 23
Seems like too much work. OP should have cut off only one relationship with her. HIS OWN.
kujiens101 24
She should be able to do what she wants, but you don’t want to date a girl that feels the need to have so many guys chasing after her then you are totally in the right to leave her.
kujiens101 24
She should be able to do what she wants, but you don’t want to date a girl that feels the need to have so many guys chasing after her then you are totally in the right to leave her.
millsjoshua949 12
Seriously? Can you not take a hint? ydi
tounces7 28
She can talk to whoever she wants, and you can leave whenever you want. Why you haven't done so already makes me wonder.