why is everyone bashing the guy. he cant help that hes no longer sexually attracted to her, if thats actually the case. he should have tried to help her with the problem first and if there were no results he had the right to leave her. relationships where youre not attracted to t he other person dont usually work out.

I'm not going to add a flaming post like everyone else here. And hell, it's been over a month since the original post. 1) No matter what your weight is, you're better off without each other. Face it, if a stupid thing like that is going to come up all of the sudden and destroy your relationship, it wasn't very strong to begin with. 2) There's nothing obese at all about 130. And coming from a guy, there are a lot of things to be interested in. Personally, I like a girl with curves. I don't hold anything against the girl that's (healthily) weighing 95 pounds. But I prefer shape, a real figure. Which hun, I'm almost certain you have. So my money says that you look fantastic. 3) His opinion isn't going to matter anyway. Not in the end. Nor will mine. The only one that matters in the end is yours. Because if you are happy with yourself, those around you will see it. THAT ALONE, will make you more attractive. So try to keep that in mind. You are who you are, and no one else can be you. Flaunt it.

I agree with a majority of these people, I'm a guy and will honestly say that a female weighing 130 isn't overweight, your ex boyfriend was just an ass.

Well, aslong as you're the right height then you're not fat. And geeze, he's shallow.

I had to sign up to comment on this. You girls saying shes not fat based on her weight of 130 are using the wrong criteria for determining her fatness. It's possible to weigh 130 and be active and fit and look great. However, its also definitely possible to weigh 130 and be a sloth and be fat. Curves are great, but looking like a keg is not. Hit the gym fatty.

ok ashley16 going on how you sound (from what i've read), you really sound either 12 or maybe 11. bc grownups dont come on here saying very rude and very hurtful things to others. and especially when they have a misfortune. i dont like how you say that if your 130 your fat. you sound like some stuck up B**** who only eats the rinds of grapefruits. (hmm kinda fits on how your comment made you look. lol) you dont come on the web and say a girl's fat. you need help. BADLY. your only 95.5 pounds?! yea thats not healthy. well granted if your like a model or something that would require you to be that skinny, in which case all i have to say is watch your weight. my friend starved herself to be that skinny and now she's borderline diabetic. but anyways, im 131 exactly, and im 5'4. and im completely content. im happy for you that your content with your weight. and if you were truly a "mature person" then you'd be happy for the OP. so plez grow the F*** up. =3

Ashley16, you're a dumb little bitch. This is coming from a guy. I don't care that you're 95.5(who the **** gives a shit about a half a pound, bitch?) pounds. I have a friend who is 5'1", that small and a size 0, but still attractive. I also have a lot of friends that are more than 130 and still attractive. You're a pretentious little **** who needs to get the **** slapped out of her by her mother.

thank you. that means alot coming from a guy.

maybe you are heavier than you think....

130 isnt bad at all! your boyfriend is a dickface!