You're not fat. I wish I was 130 pounds....FML....

97, that doesn't go for all women, so yes I do think that's shallow. My fiance has gained 80 pounds since we started dating, and I love him no less. He's losing weight now to get healthier, but I found him no less attractive. Oh, and btw, he was big to begin with, and he's 5'8". I also want to add that I'm 5'3" and just under 140. I used to weight 115, and just like someone else said, I looked like a skeleton. It sounds like I weigh a lot, but I am somewhat muscular and wear a 34D. I don't have a flat stomach, but I'm certainly not fat, and I think I look better at this weight than I did when I weighed 115, because this is my natural weight.

Oh, and to the guy commenting on the averages--this is taking into consideration that many american women (AND MEN) are overweight, so yes I do believe those averages are correct.

That happened to me too. I'm around 130 and some would consider I'm "chubby." He got me to work out after six months and convinced me i was doing it for myself. I realize now that he was merely out of love with me and so insecure about himself that he couldn't stand being around a girl that weighed more than him. Don't fret. It won't be long until you realize how much of an asshole he is and how you're much better off without him.

Meh, he was probably cheating on you or something and needed a quick excuse...I weigh 130 and I'm like 5'6", and yeah I do have a little fat on me, but quite a bit of muscle too (since I walk a lot). I'd kick his ass lol. Honestly REAL love is accepting people for better or for worse cuz NO ONE stays the same throughout life physically. It just goes to show he was all about the sex and didn't actually love you, so he can go exercise his arm muscles with some masturbation now cuz with his standards, he's not getting any. =P

yeaa my boy pulled the same shit on me... cept in 5'4 and 110. later someone told me he was messing around with a "******* hot" stripper with "big *******"... i suppose i didn't compare. just goes to show that men are shallow bitches. i feel your pain.

anyway. look on the bright side! at least you're not 5'0 and pushing 200 pounds. but! it doesn't matter girly! there are tons of men out there and when you least expect it, a good one with a big wiener will come by... then turn sour... and the cycle will continue :) its good that your ex let you know before you started getting too caught up with your appearance. shit like that will turn a girl crazy. the chair thing is hilarious tho. perfect timing. haha.

lol #73 you're a dick and you have no idea what you're talking about. :)

it doesn't really matter how tall she is. the fact that he broke up with her because of her weight is pathetic. he obviously just can't handle a real woman.

It is in the best interest of mutual respect to avoid using negative remarks about the opposite party when breaking-up. He was no longer attracted to her. That was his issue. Why he wasn't attracted to her anymore, while not irrelevant, is not a necessary point of discussion when breaking-up unless specifics were requested by her. The only reason one would provide this information unrequested would be to hurt. Suffice to say, it was uncalled for and unwarranted and reflects negatively on him. #98 - Yes there is. Some people have larger rib cages and shoulders than others. If people didn't have larger and smaller skeletons we would all be the same height and have the same size feet and hands but we don't. Think about it for a second.