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By UnknownRelationshipStatus - 19/01/2019 00:00

Today, it's Christmas. I don't know if I'm single or in a relationship. My partner doesn't want to split but he's also not making an effort to save the relationship. We haven't spoken or seen each other in over two weeks. FML
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cacheson 41

It sounds to me like maybe you should be the one to end it. That’s no way to live, and your partner isn’t being fair to you by leaving things in limbo.

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ewilkes91 11

That’s different tho. If your in a long distance relationship at least you talk on the phone or communicate in other ways even though you don’t see each other. OP makes it sound like they have not had any form of communication in 2 weeks

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Mathalamus 24

Defacto single, de Jure in a relationship. Change one.

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FunnyTechGuy 2

It's time to dump him and move on to someone better.

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towertom 3

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UnknownRelationshipStatus 4

OP here. We weren't married, but we were loyal to each other. No cheating. This was originally posted on Christmas, so it only took 3 weeks to get posted. Hard to refer to someone as something they no longer are. We hadn't spoken or seen each other. It was actually *my* decision, but he didn't want to end it. I told him it was over, but he wanted to make amends. It didn't help that he was depressed and I was trying to cheer him up but he just created a wall. (he has seen a doctor!) I, in turn, became depressed. My depression was ignored because he's been depressed longer. He refused to see how unhappy I had become in the relationship. So okay, he wanted to make amends. He did this by dropping off a lunch to me once a week. Is it supposed to last me the entire week? Got one on Monday, another two on Fridays. I never saw him. He dropped off a Christmas gift. Again, I never saw him. He never made an effort to come see me. I thought he wanted to repair things. He never contacted me. If he would have made the effort, I would have returned it in kind. He said he's been sending me messages and I never responded to them. Turns out, that was a lie. I felt like I was supposed to make the effort to repair something I no longer wanted. I ended up owning both vehicles that we were driving due to his poor choices. I left him the older vehicle so he wouldn't be without a vehicle to drive. He drove it for a month and decided it was too much of a gas guzzler. A vehicle I had previously been driving for *MONTHS* because at the time he was driving the new vehicle with good mileage. A vehicle that, at the time, we both owned. I didn't complain. At least we had vehicles to get to and from work. He went and bought a new, gas saving vehicle. Good for him! Except he didn't tell me... I don't care that he bought a new vehicle, but he held onto the old one so here I am paying out for insurance and registration on a vehicle that's not being driven! ヽ(ಠ_ಠ)ノ It's official now, I'm single.

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