#15 might have a point. Sure it's old-fashioned, but what's that saying about cows and milk? But anyway I'm calling FAKE - the whole thing is just too contrived.

Adultery is what hits me worst. Don't listen to any of his "excuses". Guys behaving like that deserve nothing!

Something quite doesn't make sense. You have a kid. You have a fiancé. Your kid calls your fiancé daddy. Of course that could be the scenario, but I always thought a kid would only call someone daddy if it was his real father or if he's the new step-father, which doesn't appear to be the case yet.

#23 My cousin called his future step-mom Mommy for years before she married his dad. Because his mom was a deadbeat and ditched him, and he was very close to his dad's girlfriend. Nothing unusual about taking on a new parental figure!

im so glad you know how to spell anonymous!!! ;)

How do you know it wasn't his cousin or a work friend or anything? Unless I'm just stupid and didn't get what was really going on between them. Your son's remark makes me just think that he was in the car and she was driving, but everyone else's comments makes it seem like there was something sexual going on.

The fact that he's your fiancee and not your husband saves you the inevitable cost and effort that divorce will mean for you if he can't keep in in his pants, or even indoors. :) All the best to you, OP. Don't ever let anyone treat you and your son with that little respect.

#18: Marriage is not some old-fashioned, out of use throwback, although some people would have it be so. Say and think what you like; marriage is a PROTECTION: if not emotional, then at least financial and legal, that prevents someone from being entirely devastated if one spouse decides to act like a fool. And, no disrespect whatsoever to the OP, but maybe he'd have appreciated it a little bit more if he'd have had to put a ring on it. I definitely think that the man or woman who WON'T MARRY you is not worth having a CHILD with, simply because if he/she can't make a formal life-time commitment to the parent of his children, he's probably not even PRETENDING to believe it's forever.

#23 Are you retarded? Who said that her son is NOT her fiancés REAL kid?! Last time I checked you didn't have to be married to be the father of a child...they can very well have a child together without being married. And OP: that really does suck bad...I wanna say at least you found out before you married him, but that's probably not gonna do much since you do have a child together...I just hope he'll keep on taking care of his son even if it may be over with your guys' relationship.

Better to know now before you're stuck with him. On the other hand, he still owes child support.