By botharebad - 13/03/2010 05:14 - Canada

Today, I was at my boyfriend's apartment, when I came across a lacy black thong in the laundry. When confronted, he swore it was his. I don't know what's worse, the possibility that another woman left it there, or the idea that my boyfriend owns and wears women's lingerie. FML
I agree, your life sucks 31 504
You deserved it 3 301

Same thing different taste

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Tell him to wear them to bed next time you're together and see how he reacts. And who knows, it could be hot. :P

Are you kidding me? Cheating is way worse than crossdressing. Most crossdressers are heterosexual men. There's nothing wrong with that. Open your mind up, you might like it. If not, at least let him do his thing. I'd rather have a man who likes to wear feminine clothing over a cheater anyday.

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koco4 0

What worse is him with another woman. Wearing womens lingerie means he's freaky. lol

dynky 3

Surely the idea of him cheating on you is worse? He could be lying though...

Be more open-minded, op. There is absolutely nothing wrong with cross-dressing, and you need to be more respecting and trusting. and apfluxx, when men hide it, it's probably, because they aren't comfortable enough with themselves, like you said, and get off on the taboo.

ok, it's not his. That sounds like a sign. He swore to it because he got caught. A way to manipulate you into believing that its not a girl's. If it was leftover by another person, when confronted I would say, no way that's not mine. He actually swore it's his? that doesn't make any sense. Either he's not what you think it is or there is another woman involved. I would now wait and dont attack him. Watch what he does and keep your options open!

You're a douchbag if you're going to put your feelings of disgust over his fetish. OMG he wears GIRL underwear. Girl, if that's the only thing "wrong" with him, you need to STFU and accept him for who he really is. Now, if he's cheating, that's a different story..

faxe 0

OP, play his bluff. Buy him a matching bra and your choice of stuffing.

While he's probably just covering up, it's disturbing that you are unsure whether it's worse that he A: Has a fetish, or B: Does not value or respect you in any fashion.

miss_Blackberry 0

hmmmm...... maybey he's secretly a sweet transvestite?? (sorry, i had to >.