the only problem is lack of communication between you two.

Maybe he dislikes your ****** try to offer him bj and get him horny then u will have sex if not... Try going for buttsex

That's actually really sad

Try Cialis

... reallly?

well if you're like give me your dick in a demonic voice I would be scared too

The first time is rarely a success. My "first" time that we were gonna do it, he couldn't keep it up nor could I stay wet. I dried up all the time. The second time we tried (with lube), it hurt so badly I had to make him stop and wouldn't advance on him for another month, after spending time trying to "stretch" myself a bit through fingering. Don't stress it too much; just make sure to tell him that everything that goes wrong during the first times is normal.

make him feel better then, that's kinda your responsibility..YDI

That's too bad :( The first time, it's often difficult for the guy to keep an erection, due to nerves, but the embarrassment because of it doesn't help future situations. Just be supportive and encouraging, I'm sure you two can work things out.

slip some viagra in his drink