By no luck - 30/09/2010 17:14 - United States

Today, I found out less than 3 weeks before my wedding my fiancé will lose his new, great paying job unless we cancel our nonrefundable honeymoon. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 151
You deserved it 3 614

Same thing different taste

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Well, OP, which will be most benefitial in the long run? It sucks that it's non-refundable and all, but you might be able to persuade them to change the dates or something.

ctlnaaia71 8

don't be sad. just postpone the trip. either way, it feels the same to have sex at home than in Hawaii.

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Non-refundable, but not unchangeable. So perhaps ask them to change the dates of the trip so that you can still go.

Erindub 0

Deal with it. You'll lose more $ in the long run.

thatonedame 6

that blows. poor planning on your part. if you're not bright enough to confirm vacation time well in advance, with both of your jobs, YDI

Not necessarily. He could've confirmed it with his old job, and just not forseen this new job opportunity arising. New bosses often look down upon requesting vacation time so soon after being hired, and that's not considering that some jobs require you to accumulate vacation time by working your set schedule first. Besides, perhaps there's mandatory training or something that can't be easily rescheduled.

#32 - you did read the bit where it said his NEW job, right?

It's a new job, so planning doesn't necessarily come into it. What he should have done, though, was to mention his upcoming honeymoon after he'd gotten the offer letter from the company. He might have had to take the time unpaid, but most reasonable companies would understand the situation and make allowances. If he didn't even mention it until he was actually at work, then it might be a YDI situation. In any case, usually with non-refundable trips, they'll let you reschedule, or give you credit. they may charge a fee, but at least you won't lose all your money. Otherwise, try to sell it (if transferrable). If all else fails, be happy with the good, high-paying employment, which is getting more rare these days.

fyl cuz you can afford a honeymoon...wow and alot of people can't afford rent.

take a girlfriend with you and have some fun while the new hubby works:)

Jojoo13_fml 0

Just pay for it, if the job pays well keep it! you never know it could be fate

Yeah, really. If they're still married in 5 years, they'll have something to celebrate.

This is actually about the fml above this one, the one with the cotton balls and string. Ummmmm... thats A JOKE ive seen in a JOKE BOOK. Most likely the woman thought this was funny and decided to try to pass it off as her own story. other people, please call her out for me. :)

Why don't you do it? Are you afraid of the OP getting mad?

Yeah, comments for that one have been disabled. I'll bet it disappears soon, for exactly this reason.

Master_Of_Sand 0

See, this is why you have kids BEFORE you get married.