By "themadrabbit" - 02/03/2017 23:21
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Discuss options with him for what he is comfortable with you doing to safe your sex drive. Some ace people are willing and able to do the sex thing, but if he falls on the spectrum in a way that he doesn't have a sex drive at all, that might not be an option- and even if it is, one or both of you might not be comfortable with that possible solution. The other option that the two of you can discuss is you having sex with people other than him WITH his permission- either by having him approve a friend's with benefits situation with someone you both know, one night stands with being very judicious about safe sex, or something in between. Communicate! If the lack of sexual outlets becomes a problem for you, let him know. If he loves you, he'll try to compromise with you in a way that mostly pleases both of you, as long as you are willing to compromise too.
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Even if he is asexual it shouldn't be a problem. people are all different. I personally would take care of my gf if she wished, even though i have no sexual drive generally.
That really depends on the ace person in question. Some people can participate actively, some people can participate passively, some people can think about sex fantasy and not want to be a participant, and some react very badly to any exposure to sex. And libido isn't quite the same as sexuality, though there is usually overlap.
as an asexual, either get over it or leave the relationship.
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Discuss options with him for what he is comfortable with you doing to safe your sex drive. Some ace people are willing and able to do the sex thing, but if he falls on the spectrum in a way that he doesn't have a sex drive at all, that might not be an option- and even if it is, one or both of you might not be comfortable with that possible solution. The other option that the two of you can discuss is you having sex with people other than him WITH his permission- either by having him approve a friend's with benefits situation with someone you both know, one night stands with being very judicious about safe sex, or something in between. Communicate! If the lack of sexual outlets becomes a problem for you, let him know. If he loves you, he'll try to compromise with you in a way that mostly pleases both of you, as long as you are willing to compromise too.
Even if he is asexual it shouldn't be a problem. people are all different. I personally would take care of my gf if she wished, even though i have no sexual drive generally.