Call a couple of friends to share the hotel room, go to a local restaurant and try a new cuisine, and make a great night out of a nightmare. You're better off without someone who won't love you. At least you found out now before you got married.

You automatically assume that he's a jerk for doing that, but maybe there was a good reason for it. Also, at least it happened before they got married.

You're not alone, friend, we're all with you ! Sorry this happened to you but it's still better than him leading you on ? And well, at least you have a nice room and some good wine.

Yo thats not cool at all, why is she being so heartless?

Fiancé is an engaged man. Fiancée is an engaged woman. A few people here think OP is a man who was dumped by a woman.

Screw the wine! Go for the good stuff! Jack! And get some strippers while your at it! XD

what part of michigan are you from

Hey, OP here! (Sorry, I didn't think to use my account when I posted this) Turns out I'm sort of happy that it happened. It hurt (and still hurts), yes, but I'm glad I didn't go through with the wedding. We spent the next week going back and forth and he just treated me like crap. It made me realize I deserve someone who wants me, loves me, and treats me how I deserve to be treated. As for the hotel, I did have my best friend enjoy the amenities with me while I enjoyed some much needed catharsis. Thank you, everyone, for being so kind!

That's terrible :-( if you want someone to talk to, I'm free. (No, I'm not hitting on you. I don't know your gender and you don't know mine. Just offering to talk if you need it.)

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