Today, my flatmate came home from a date with the same guy that I have been in love with since high school. As I type, can hear them having sex through our paper thin walls. FML
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Hey all OP here. Thanks for all the kind words. For those wondering, I gave my flatmate my blessing. The guy and I dated for a little while but it didn't work out, for him at least. I still harbour feelings for him but want them both to happy. Still sucks though.
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cocacola999 27
If your roommate knew, they're a grade A bitch.
Silverfeathery 21
I would suggest noise-cancelling headphones.
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Silverfeathery 21
I would suggest noise-cancelling headphones.
extrasnipes 22
I'd suggest a threesome
totallynotemily 25
Try listening to music to drown them out
okaydisarray 17
Do you happen to have smoke detectors?
bornpatriot 11
Calm down Satan
DeadIllusion 7
Damn I like how you think?
cocacola999 27
If your roommate knew, they're a grade A bitch.
Solano2580 24
#10 it does matter if the roommate knew because she crippled OP's chance with him.
brezzyanna 17
Good people don't have sex with their friends crush, whether or not she has a chance with him. Her flat made should have talked to her first to see if it's okay.
cocacola999 27
#10 - Still, why not go to his place? Or at least try to be quiet? No matter how paper thin walls are, it is perfectly possible to be quiet enough (speaking from personal college experience). It seems deliberate and hurtful, if they knew.
gracehi 33
Uh, no, 10. A person can be madly in love someone who doesn't reciprocate their feelings. Been there, done that. And whether OP has made a move or not, dated him in the past or not, or whatever the circumstances may be, if the roommate knows how she feels about the guy, it is extremely cruel to throw it in her face that she's ******* him by doing it in the apartment so she knows and hears what's happening as it's happening. I can't imagine the emotional pain OP was experiencing when she typed this FML.
ndts 4
I'm going to have to agree with your point about being in love with someone. But it does make OPs flatmate a **** if she did know, which I'm just going to assume was not the case I'd love some clarification from the OP though
FML_HelloItsMe 15
Is your dp a picture of mexico? Its beautiful
RufusBarbarossa 13
Aveera you're operating under the assumption that OP is angry at the flat mate/the guy. She may simply be sad about how things turned out and be frustrated (sexually and otherwise) and so decided to post on FML. Nothing wrong with that
Thegoofygoober 15
#33 the problem here is there is too many story book lunatics. tell a guy you like him, if he doesn't reciprocate back then move on. but how do we know the room mate even knows she liked him? again assumptions made by hurt in the past people.
anonymuse_fml 31
Did you ever tell the boy in question that you loved him or did you just watch and silently pine over him, waiting for him to notice you? If the former, FYL. If the latter, YDI.
Lisee92 18
Agree. You can't claim a person infinitely if you haven't given it a shot.
RufusBarbarossa 13
I don't think the OP was angry at the guy I think they were just bemoaning their life. Which is ok imo
moodyreallyrocks 27
Sorry OP!! I'd suggest going out and just having a good time, take your mind off it. Let karma handle it..
zman938 8
Let karma handle it? What exactly did they do to deserve karma?
FlamingColor 30
If I were you, I'd just leave the apartment. Go do something else so you're not in the vicinity.
Densetsu1000 14
Type louder.
staresintospace 1
Am I the only one to suggest she (presumably) hop into that action?
CamBamShamDaMan 26
If u loved him since high school and im assuming ur in college why wont u do anything about it, i mean do u think hes gonna read ur mind or something so stop being sorry...... Unless ur roommate knew u were after him thats kinda ******...