Today, I told my boyfriend I was scared to open up to him because I had lost people in the past by doing so. After an hour of him trying to convince me to share my thoughts with him, I finally agreed to tell him some things that were worrying me. He broke up with me a minute later. FML
Lady_Gunslinger9 tells us more.
Hey guys I'm the OP, just thought I'd make an account and give you all some extra information. I have an anxiety disorder and depression, he knew about both of these and he could tell I wasn't feeling okay so he asked me what was wrong, I tried to convince him it was nothing because I don't feel comfortable opening up to people because of things that have happened in my past. When he eventually convinced me I wasn't going to lose him if I opened up, I took a risk. I told him some things that were worrying me and no it's nothing crazy or weird (although the murder comments did cheer me up a little). The conversation led to talking about our relationship and that's when he ended it. I'm better off without him because anyone who cant deal with me telling them small things that everyone goes through certainly couldn't handle something big if it ever happened. I am sad it ended but I know its probably for the best
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
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tdawg91 17
What the hell are you telling these people??!!
Soninuva 41
People like that are why I have trust issues!
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drunkturtle 14
Thats horrible! I'm so sorry you had to go through that You deserve better than him OP
kl0x 8
Well, we don't know the other part of the story, she could be telling awful mind stuff to this people..
Drakone 9
Yeah we really need to get the full scoop is we are to fully comprehend if there is a reason for it or not.
okokalright 15
..Or she could just have a form of anxiety or she's afraid of getting hurt if she tells someone how she feels, has some problems she wants to work out, or is worried someone would leave her. Just because she might've shared something personal to him doesn't make her possibly awful minded. And usually someone you're in a relationship with is someone you trust
okokalright 15
Well let's not forget that a lot of people in america can be absolute assholes for no reason
Kitten_love 22
Wait the assholes are ONLY in America? That's weird, seems like people are posting on this website from all over the world.
okokalright 15
Oops, i didn't see that it was from the UK. But still people can be rude for no reason no matter where you are.
Soninuva 41
People like that are why I have trust issues!
boating_guy 33
I would agree, but we also have no idea what the **** OP is telling them, so I think it's a little soon to pass judgment either way
reeper147 14
Well that escalated quickly. I'm guessing they weren't run of the mill issues though, otherwise you would have probably stated them.
tdawg91 17
What the hell are you telling these people??!!
Ms_ValS 27
Yes OP please share with us since you already brought them to our attention.
Isandri 29
Maybe OP is a transgender, that usually is a dealbreaker to lots of peple :(
KingLewisII 34
34 that's something you should tell someone you plan to be in a relationship anyway, before you get intimate they have a right to know and keeping it a secret is a reason to breakup. I'm guessing op told stories about having dreams of killing babies every night or something
ohSNAPyall 27
"For starters, I'm a cannibal."
ChibiChick25 8
I think its fair to say that OPs boyfriends aren't the problem. Whatever OP she is telling them its scaring the hell out of them.
enginsteve 17
#89. Unless OP is telling them how much she likes to eat the organs of babies while their heart is still beating, or something about how she likes to crush nuts, my money is going with that the guys she ends up with are *******. Even if she was worried, depressed, or has anxiety problems you don't run from that you ******* work it out... Oh one more thing ********. If she's telling him that she doesn't like to give ******** and she'll never do it again, then that's a pretty good reason for them to leave.. Lol I've left for that!
notzax 19
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
Message me with what's troubling you. Maybe me not being a guy will help? And I can help you seek help if needed?
Mauskau 36
Male or female, that isn't going to stop OP from having shitty exes.
Cads1 24
Would you like their credit card and bank details too?
EatUrGreens 20
*alarm bells*
interesting33 37
i thought they are just trying to help
LilMissCanadian 22
Blob fish picture. Lol. Our point is the comment was unnecessary. If she has problems, there are people she can talk to in person... like a therapist.
mergeterge 24
Not everyone has access to a therapist...
worldclassrager 41
I would report this but I have no idea what to put in for the report box
worldclassrager 41
Why not a SSN as well?
1dvs_bstd 41
What a ******* lemon. OP, word to the wise: next time don't open up all your pandora of secrets all at once. Do it bit by bit over the course of the relationship, that way you don't come across as crazy. But **** him tho.
igg125 30
Buy a tub of ice cream. That always helps me after break ups.
Geckosrock99 33
Also tissues and water, for during and after a crying session. It's unhealthy to hold it in when your body needs to cry.
igg125 30
Ice cream and Netflix does it for me.
Geckosrock99 33
Everyone has their coping mechanisms. Different for everyone.
strike2867 13
Wallow in self pity combined with poor food choices, sounds like a healthy way to cope. Wouldn't want to get out of the house, get some exercise and meet new people, that would be terrible.
bulletsinthewind 21
You might have been dating the wrong type of guy OP
danial1214 21
"Curiosity killed the cat" or in your case the relationship.
hiheyitschloe 13
Assshoolee alert! You deserve better, OP. I know right now it may seem that you'll never find someone who'll always be there, but one day you will and they'll love everything about you no matter what. I'll be rooting for you when that day comes! Keep your chin up beautiful! x