Today, I found out that my boyfriend of over a year has been cheating on me the whole time, but that "it's just physical". However, he doesn't want to do anything "physical" with me, except cuddle when we're together. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Suspect
Today, I found out my boyfriend has been actively cheating on me the whole relationship. When I called him out and showed him the evidence, he lied to my face, saying he didn’t know who sent the Facebook messages, but that it wasn't him and he did nothing wrong. He is constantly on his phone. FML
Double agent
Today, I found out that my boyfriend is cheating. Not on me but WITH me! This man has a whole wife and two kids that I swear I had no idea about. I feel sick to my stomach just thinking about it. FML
Double standards
Today, I found out my boyfriend of two years cheated on me. His reason? "You were flirting with me for a whole year before us when you had a whole boyfriend at the time. How do I know you aren't a cheater?" His further reasoning was that at least if I cheated on him, he'd have a reason to stay with me. FML
Mind-boggling logistics
Today, I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me. He married someone, and got another girl pregnant. We were together for 8 years. FML
That's kinda handy!
Today, my boyfriend and I found out that we were cheating on each other with the same person. FML
Dealbreaker?
Today, I learned that my boyfriend of a year and half hit up another girl to hang out while we were six months into dating. He even shared photos with her from a day trip I was on. FML
That's kind of a big issue
Today, my boyfriend of 4 years, who I love with every fiber in my body, just told me that he's not attracted to me. Not in any way, shape, or form. FML
Sneaky
Today, I found out my boyfriend of two years is cheating on me. A friend had brought this to my attention. She was under the impression that we broke up because she’d seen stories of him and another woman. I found out he changed his story settings to hide the specific posts with that other woman from me only. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. We're in the middle of nowhere and have a 4-hour drive home. FML
I ate being proved right
Today, I found out that my boyfriend of three years cheated on me with his ''sister-like friend." It's the girl I was always worried about, and half our arguments were about her. FML
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Tiffosaurus 12
Did you straight up, break up with him? Cause hes an obvious douche.
anythingmustbe 18
You mean ex-boyfriend right? Don't worry there will be other guys who are caring. They want to get physical!Physical!
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Nordrag 26
I feel like a stronger insult is deserved here.
chocolatefrog28 29
He needs to become an ex, as soon as possible. "It was 'only physical'? Consider this 'only a break-up'." Seriously, you have to wonder what goes through the head of some people to validate such skeezy actions. If you have to go elsewhere to get your rocks off, don't be in a relationship.
kernelkat 16
So sorry that really sucks! You deserve better
KiddoKS 19
Since he's been doing so much physical activity, he won't even need to break a sweat when you send him packing.
cristy91 33
He clearly does not respect you and doesn't understand what it means to be in a relationship. If you're going to be open or want to be with someone for only one aspect, it's your responsibility to tell that to your partner. If they say it's a no go, then you either don't do it or find someone else who is interested in that sort of deal. There really is no reason for dishonesty besides pure maliciousness. Sorry you had to deal with that, OP
Andriaia 13
Tell me about it. It was made perfectly clear on more than one occasion that other people were not ok, we were exclusive and he/ every part of him was supposed to be ONLY mine.
gilliaga73 18
I hope you dumped him. The only thing worse than your boyfriend cheating on you for a year is the same boyfriend cheating on you for two years. Good luck, op!
Pesticides 19
your EX is a disgrace to the human race, a complete waste of recources, and should be taken from the gene pool. is that better?
Ripplez13 9
"Just physical"? More like just a douche. I hope you're not too down about it, he doesn't deserve to have a place in your life.
aligater10 7
I think you need a shovel. A hole. And some lime. Jk but seriously? Dump this douche now!!
sammyjanette 17
You are incredibly lucky even though you may not feel like it now. At least you weren't having sex with him too. You wouldn't believe the amount of poor girls and guys out there who get STDs from cheating partners!
Andriaia 13
OP here. Actually we were. Like I said previously, we're kinda long distance so I only get to see him every 2-3 months. So I basically found out he's been cheating when I'm a 3.5 hour plane ride from everyone I really know. Unfortunately, I even got on the pill because he wanted to me to. Just that this time he doesn't really want to do anything physical anymore, but it used to be great. What you mentioned WAS on my mind and is a worry though.
anythingmustbe 18
Please do not waste your life on this loser. If you want a future with someone you will want it to be someone who will stand by you. Harder things may come up during marriage if you want that in the future and if he cant handle long distance he doesn't seem like someone who will stand by you. Find someone who is faithful and appreciative of who you are.
ohioain 18
Get tested OP. I'm scared for you.
Epikouros 32
You can't get an STD from cuddling. OP's boyfriend is protecting her health by not having sex with her. Just kidding, this cheater is a real asshole.