Today, I found out my extremely anti-war relatives hate me because they think I served in the Army, after hearing I was "a vet". I'm a veterinarian. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Today, I was at a Remembrance Day service when an old widow told me I had my "grandad's" medals on the wrong side of my coat. I told her that I was an Afghanistan veteran and that they were mine. She then berated me in front of the WHOLE service for "lying". FML
Hogs gonna hog
Today, I, a retired U.S. Army soldier, was shouted down and called a liberal snowflake and even accused of stolen valor. Why? I admitted that I absolutely hate Trump. FML
Today, I went to a veterans' reunion party with my grandpa. While there, a guy started yelling at me for having an unapproved haircut. It was my grandpa's old drill sergeant, and he thought I was in the army too. Everyone just smirked as he forced me to drop and do push-ups. FML
Animalistic
Today, I was fired from my local animal shelter. I was a volunteer and am currently in school for veterinary technology. My education made the paid staff at the shelter feel threatened. FML
USA! USA! USA!
Today, I was uninvited to our usual family Thanksgiving, as well as the rest of the holidays with my extended family. Why? They found out who I voted for. I won't say who, but according to my aunt, I'm to blame for putting their son's healthcare at risk. WTF? FML
Incomplete freedom
Today, my dad drunkenly ranted about how I should volunteer for the military because of the crisis in the Middle East. I refused; I'm in college on two scholarships and have listened to stories of why his service still gives him nightmares. I had to hide all the phones to keep him from calling the recruiters. FML
Thank you for your service
Today, I was pretending to be a veteran for the US Navy at a local outlet, because I was desperate for cheap stuff. All was going well, until an actual vet pointed out that the ship I had on my naval hat was a fictitious one. Shit. FML
Digging my heels in
Today, my family dragged me to a steakhouse, knowing full well I'm vegan. I sat there, with my sad little salad, watching as they stuffed themselves with burned animal flesh and laughed at me. They wonder why I hate them all. FML
Today, I told my parents I was thinking about joining the army. They looked at each other and laughed for about 10 minutes straight. I wasn't joking. FML
Murderer!
Today, my husband got charged with felony animal cruelty, because while I was at work, he shot someone's hunting dog on our property. I'm a veterinarian. This should be great for my reputation. FML
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Ambient25 25
So...clarify what you mean by "Vet" to your hateful relatives...or don't, in the end they're not leading your life. Besides, I just hate that, if you're anti-war then hate the politicians, don't hate those who serve....
audreyfml1994 15
Although it was just a missunderstanding, even if they are anti-war they should never be ashamed to have a family member who puts or has put their life on the line to protect their country.
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marchelley907 9
smh..
fleur_de_fevrier_fml 23
I'm anti-war (anyway I wonder who could be pro-war?). But it's downright stupid to hate the soldier who does his job. I'm pissed off at the politicians and big corporations who feed people with lies and fear in order to increase their geopolitical influence.
Thorzix 23
Greedy people are pro-war.
Voij 16
I guess there are at least some cases where can one consider being "pro-involvement", even though that's technically not "pro-war". There are certain things that happen around the globe where the populace that falls victim to it protect themselves against it, where outside forces can lend assistance. Although even this then begs the question of whether military involvement is actually necessary.
nisse_fml 9
I know I'll get down voted since everyone seems to be very much in love with people in the army but: It makes total sense to not like soldiers if you don't like war. If people took their responsibility and didn't blindly sign up "to protect their country" and instead ponder "What will I be asked to do?" the amount of shit happening in the world would decrease. If it's likely they'll be sent to a dodgy invasion, support a foreign dictator or something like that they aren't really doing their job, they are actively helping said invasion or dictator. You can pick your jobs and it's better to starve than to be the Guantanamo Bay head torturer.
Ambient25 25
What part of "Only Congress or the President has the authority to declare war under varying timelines" do you not understand? Hate them, don't hate those who risk themselves as part of their job. According to your thought process, if you hate criminals, you must hate cops too.
nisse_fml 9
I understand both, it doesn't have to make it right though. What's happening in Syria is from the "legitimate" rules, using the soldiers to kill children. Now, the soldiers in Syria probably don't have much wiggle room to avoid being target of the army if she or he quits. In the US though, you have a very good option. You will not be tortured or killed for not signing up and thus you can directly avoid being apart of for instance invading Iraq based on lies. That you wrote about cops-criminals just doesn't make any sense to me. If you weren't just trying to score an easy point by using a flawed figure of speech please feel free to try to explain what you meant.
gracehi 33
"War"isn't the only thing the military does, though. For example, I'm in the US Navy, and my squadron fights pirates who murder, rape, kidnap, and sell innocent people into slavery. I doubt even the anti-war types can rightfully hate someone who fights pirates.
BellaBear90 27
Don't be ridiculous #31, we cannot just decide we don't want to play war anymore. There will always be a need for the military to protect our own country at least and we have a certain duty to protect others who cannot help themselves or have a corrupt regime in place. If you disagree with the reason for military action being taken then fair enough but the brave men and women who are there, want to help. Don't hate the soldier(sailor/air crew).
WhiteCrimson 23
An job chosen by them. The implications are very clear on "you might die"!!
nisse_fml 9
Way to ignore what I'm saying #52. I'm not saying there should be no army (well of course that would be nice but not with how the world currently looks). I'm not saying that everyone in the army is an asshole or a murderer. I'm also not saying that everything the navy and/or the army is doing is all out wrong. What I'm saying is that each individual has a responsibility. The larger your freedom the larger the responsibility. For instance the members of the Syrian army, who by your logic are heroes since they are members of the army, I don't consider heroes. I consider them criminals. However, they would probably lose their life if they tried to leave the Syrian army, and are thus of course less accomplice to the crimes, as a consequence of their limited freedom. In the USA though no one is forcing anyone by gunpoint saying "Be a part of a war that is based on lies and will kill (indirectly mostly) hundreds of thousands of civilians, or we'll shoot you and your family". Rather in the USA everyone has a chance (and a democratic responsibility) to study and to say "No, I will not take part in this mindless killing. I love my country and I'm ready to die for it, but I'm not ready to die for the profit of a few companies". If soldiers (or would be soldiers) actually did that there would be no army to commit war crimes with. That's why I think sentiments like "God bless the veterans" and "They sign up because that's the right thing to do." is utter crap. No it's not right to follow your leaders blindly, and it's not heroic either. It can be but it's not automatically so.
NotoriousLES 14
Dear 31, I have an intelligent, rational argument against your "hate war, hate solders" statements. However, you don't seam to have the cognitive capacity for it so allow me to put it into very simple terms... Pull your fat head out of your self-righteous ass!
gracehi 33
Service members can't decide what is and isn't a worthy cause once they are enlisted or commissioned, though. As in the case of Syria, those who will be involved in that conflict have been in the military for some time before that, and had no way of knowing that a conflict with Syria would arise. Likewise in the case of the Iraq war, many people involved in that joined the miliary to fight Al Qaeda in response to 9/11, and then the US declared war on Iraq later. And once something like that happens, one can't simply decide to no longer be in the military, because all service members are under contract, and can't choose to leave the military until their term of enlistment is up. No matter what reason a service member chooses to enlist, he or she is obligated to go wherever and do whatever their leaders decide is necessary.
Lizzy500 16
Very right Gra-with the penalty of imprisonment or execution if they don't. American soldiers give up a lot of their own personal freedoms when they decide to protect ours. (Granted, death by firing squad is not a common occurrence, but it's still on the books)
sandy105 3
Some people just wanna be stupid...
DasHaas 9
I'd guess that people who really wish to protect their country and nothing more would join the national guard rather than the military.
SMHsohard 22
National Guard units get deployed, too.
DasHaas 9
Seriously? I didn't know that. That seems really weird to me... but then I'm not from the US so I'm probably just misinformed.
toooldforthis 19
They might consider being police officers
NotoriousLES 14
@44. Yes, seriously. They get deployed and shipped off. They also get shot at, blown up, and even sent home in boxes just like the rest of the military branches.
lolita88_fml 27
Well. Idiots much?
fleur_de_fevrier_fml 23
I'm with you #39. The problem is so many people sign up because they buy the propaganda "you're fighting for freedom". Invading Iraq and Afghanistan didn't bring freedom to anyone but only a blood bath on both sides. Wars are simply to acquire resources and geopolitical influence. These are the only reasons why a government would drag a country into war. Of course, to get the support of the people, the real reasons will be hidden behind some patriotic BS. No one would have supported the Iraq invasion if they have said: "we're pretty sure there is no WMDs but if you want your gas prices to stay low, we need to go". As far as I know, none of the congressmen send their kids to the front line. Why is that? Yes it gets frustrating to see people letting themselves being manipulated, but is it fair to hate on someone who genuinely thinks they are doing the right thing?
slmchicd12 23
There are lots of different reasons why people join the military. I joined for the GI Bill and training. I am student loan free and possess certifications that can't be earned in the civilian sector. I served during OIF and OEF, however, I never had to deploy. There were always enough volunteers willing to deploy so those of us who didn't want to go, didn't have to. I thank those who had the courage to step forward so I could stay safe at home with my kids. I certainly didn't agree with everything Bush did, but I did my job anyway. God bless our vets.
fleur_de_fevrier_fml 23
Clearly I was talking of people who join in because they truly believe that invading another country is going to bring freedom and peace to theirs. I think 9/11 proved otherwise. The US fiercest enemies are born from its aggressive foreign policies. I was not talking about people who sign up for the benefits. Anyway everyone should be allowed an education without having no other choice than joining the military but that's another debate. Being a patriot is lovely but no country attacks another for freedom ideals, the goal of wars as I said before is to acquire resources and expand geopolitical influence. Otherwise, how come North Korea is still oppressing its people? They have been threatening openly the US as well. The Middle East has petrol, which is why it gets so much attention from the Occident. At least know what you sign up for. War is economics and the freedom ideal politicians feed you with is pure propaganda. Period.
hordriss 14
Sadly some people are just ignorant.
simsgirlgem 25
wow hope I never meet your family op I have to beat them if they said anything about soldiers like my brother who are over seas making sure they have the freedom to hate war
nisse_fml 9
Which country is threatening American democracy so your brother has to be there?
chosha_fml 27
Anti-war, but they hate. Yeah, that seems legit. /eyeroll/