There is no "normal"
Today, two years after my toxic and self-centered ex-wife left me, I got remarried, but I feel like it broke my trust in people, which I used to. I now feel I don’t do enough for my present; I do better than most and have got more than average people, but I'm still too hurt and depressed to be normal. FML
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UsernameNotRandom 10
Get some therapy/counselling OP. Do not ruin this marriage due to issues with the last one. It isn't fair on you or your new partner. You can trust again, you trust your new partner enough to marry them, get the help you need.
vinvin2210 15
experienced a situation and it did affect my second serious relationship initially.. get help, go for counseling and seriously "listen" to your partner
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UsernameNotRandom 10
Get some therapy/counselling OP. Do not ruin this marriage due to issues with the last one. It isn't fair on you or your new partner. You can trust again, you trust your new partner enough to marry them, get the help you need.
vinvin2210 15
experienced a situation and it did affect my second serious relationship initially.. get help, go for counseling and seriously "listen" to your partner
Brightside86 31
I think you've just got to decide to not let your ex win. Though I get it, it's hard to be 100% invested/trusting in a relationship when experience has taught you the bottom can fall out at any moment...but that's the game.