Today, I thought I was finally over my anxiety problem, and confidently went to my first ever job interview. Halfway through, the manager told me that if I didn't stop being so nervous, he couldn't give me the job. I cried. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
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Today, after my boss thanked me for being so "reliable" all the time, I confessed to her that I have really bad anxiety, which has given me a crippling fear of disappointing her and ending up jobless. Even after reassuring me that she would never do that, the feeling is still there. I think I need therapy. FML
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jazmin3012 28
Aww OP! Don't feel bad for something that's out of your control!
energizerbunny23 18
Pretty unfair from his behalf. Hopefully it all works out though
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Headcrab 29
I used to be nervous for job interviews too but after a couple it gets better. You also should realize that the person in front of you is possibly as nervous or awkward as you. Usually it's a manager who has little to no experience themselves with interviews. Also, I stopped dressing overly nice for interviews. Just wear something you like. You'll be at ease more.
circus_princess 8
Don't worry OP I cried in an interview once and after I explained why and I got the job. Just tell them and I'm sure it will work out.
Omniprism 15
Maybe you should get some medicine. You don't just get over anxiety. I have it too. You can kind of come to terms with it but in my opinion it never fully goes away. Just think of interviews as talking to an old friend. Good luck sweetie.
aleahlioness 15
Recovery from any issue like that is a long, difficult process, but it's absolutely worth it. Don't give up!
stife7 13
Well that guy is a douche
quarterbird 18
I'm sorry that you had that experience, OP. As someone who has anxiety/PTSD, I want you to know that you're not alone in this world. That manager was a dick. Don't lose hope.
worldclassrager 41
Anxiety is a long term issue to overcome...but good job going out and trying...just hope you got the job and if not you'll get one soon
ClassyCataclasis 4
For me it seems to have gotten better with experience interviewing. also try getting some interviews for jobs you might not necessarily want just to practice interviewing with less pressure to do well and impress people.
InTheMagic 3
Awh bless you'll find something that's just right for you
mchmelev1993 10
What a jerk for putting so much pressure on you