Anonymous
Alexandria, United States
Call it quits
Today, after 5 years of being off and on, my boyfriend and I had pinky-swore that we would never break up again, but after a year of this he confessed that he'd had a fling the last time we broke up, and she'd got pregnant with twins. After therapy and marriage we are now trying to have a baby but his ding-a-ling can't get it up because of baby mama drama. FML
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FluffythePink 24
Why are you wasting your time on this guy? He's a complete shit show.
Thaylok 17
Rachel, if babies came out of a fling when you two broke up before (which you admit) then Ross didn't cheat on you. That said, he needs to find a way to cut out the baby-mamma drama. If he accepted his role there as a father, GREAT. He needs to figure out how to work that role and teach the mamma he is there for the kids, not her drama. she is welcome to find a spouse (not him). Help his psychological situation and give him a chance to meet your parenting goals. Also, viagra can help him.
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FluffythePink 24
Why are you wasting your time on this guy? He's a complete shit show.
Hangryko 32
Divorce him. Fix your mistake for marrying someone who cheated on you.
GoogieWithers 25
If they were broken up, he didn't cheat.
Hangryko 32
@GoogieWithers - My mistake. OP still needs to decide if she can put up with all of this if he won't set boundaries with the mother of his children. Hopefully, he's paying child support.
Iamthebanzai22 21
He doesn't really want you. Deal with it. Maybe it's the comfort or familiarity of your relationship, or he gets off on how much you want him. But what is kinda keeping him there is definitely not you as a person. Find someone who loves you for you.
Thaylok 17
Rachel, if babies came out of a fling when you two broke up before (which you admit) then Ross didn't cheat on you. That said, he needs to find a way to cut out the baby-mamma drama. If he accepted his role there as a father, GREAT. He needs to figure out how to work that role and teach the mamma he is there for the kids, not her drama. she is welcome to find a spouse (not him). Help his psychological situation and give him a chance to meet your parenting goals. Also, viagra can help him.
yaz 1
why did you go back after he had twins with the girl you should have BEEN left but I know it’s hard. love is love. hope the best bro you.
Lost Reggie 22
ED has nothing to do with you or the drama. Have him seek medical advice.
UniUni 20
At what point do we stop blaming him and blame you because why stay in this situation?
Nikki 17
You never blame the victim, the same way you won’t blame the twins for the inevitable daddy issues