Control

By Username - 23/03/2011 16:38 - United States

Today, my future mother-in-law informed me that since she is putting money into our wedding, that all the planning and arrangements are under her authority. FML
I agree, your life sucks 41 346
You deserved it 6 896

Same thing different taste

Top comments

stand up to the bicth now unless u wanna hear her shit 4 the rest of ur life

Have a smaller wedding and tell her that you can't accept her help if it's conditional. This isn't the way to start a marriage, with her asserting her authority over your decisions.

Comments

Hoopscapades 0

well...this can obviously go as planned with everyone satisfied....

lksdliz 9

I assume you're not planning on having kids since your husband-to-be obviously has no balls? NOW is when he needs to tell her to back off!

theonlysweetpea 10

#276 That doesn't change the fact that you reserve the right to get mad at anyone. Just because you're motherless doesn't mean everyone should take sh!t from the people around them just because they're there! I know people struggling to conceive yet there are thousands of bad parents and millions of orphans. How about you fix that before you tell someone to be grateful for something you know nothing about?!

its ur wedding not hers she diesnt have the right fir final say. she offer to fubd the wedding? if so thts the same as sponsor for band the money giver doesnt say u play the songs i wrote and i get final say.

xoxo_cherri_xoxo 6

I hope this is related to the surprise wedding with the Barbie girl song...

Draven_LOC 0

That's when you tell your future mother-in-law to keep her money. This is YOUR day, not hers. So stand up for yourself and tell her that it doesn't matter what she wants. It's what you want that matters.

chell1894 13

193 board as in an object? or do you mean bored

then pay for it yourself, don't let her control your wedding.

To everyone that says that I should not complain, we never even asked her to contribute money. We wanted to pay, but she wanted to put in money as her "gift" to her son and I. Some gift, huh?