Love, Weddings and Money: Control

Control

By Username - 23/03/2011 16:38 - United States

Today, my future mother-in-law informed me that since she is putting money into our wedding, that all the planning and arrangements are under her authority. FML

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By Anonymous - 20/05/2016 19:38 - United States - San Antonio

Today, my soon-to-be mother-in-law decided that she is going to be in charge of planning my wedding. All decisions must be approved by her, and anything she doesn't like will be thrown out. She also wants to go on our honeymoon with us to make sure I don't "defile" her son. FML

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By lauziej93 - This FML is from back in 2015 but it's good stuff - Spain - Logroño

Today, my mother-in-law became my boss. FML

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By Anonymous - 13/10/2012 23:42 - United Kingdom - Hemel Hempstead

Today, I was talking to my future mother-in-law about my upcoming wedding. She told me that I wasn't allowed to have the wedding at a church, nor wear a white dress, nor have roses for flowers, because that would mean I'd be "copying" her. FML

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By mlove - 06/09/2010 08:35 - United States

Today, my future mother-in-law finally admitted that I'm "not the girl for her son" and that she will do anything to break us up. FML

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Just stop, please

By fuck you, mum - This FML is from back in 2013 but it's good stuff - United Kingdom

Today, marks the sixth day in a row that my mum has called me to discuss my upcoming wedding. She's obsessed and has intimidated the actual planner I hired into going along with her plans. She's slipped up twice already and accidentally referred to it as her own wedding. Just great. FML

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By need_cash_now - 28/04/2013 04:29 - United States

Today, six weeks before my wedding, my mother decided to claim that she never agreed on paying for it and that she doesn't think she will. Now I have six weeks to scavenge enough cash for the wedding she planned in the first place. FML

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By Anonymous - 13/01/2016 08:53 - Denmark

Today, I called my mom to make sure she could attend on the wedding day my fiancé and I had discussed. She started off with criticizing the venue we considered, then went on to criticize my fiancé, and then stated she would under no circumstances help out, but demanded to pick my wedding dress. FML

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By Potential Bridezilla - 10/08/2011 07:18 - United Arab Emirates

Today, a week after my fiancé and I got engaged, his mother is already complaining that she isn't involved enough in the wedding arrangements. We haven't even set a date yet. FML

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By LostSoul - 10/07/2019 02:06

Today, I found out my daughter was planning a wedding and invited everyone but me. FML

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By forever1990 - 28/01/2013 11:52 - United States - York

Today, I'm getting married. A few months ago, I allowed my mother in-law to take care of catering. She begged to be a part of the wedding, so I gave her the caterer's number and order info. It appears that I will not be eating at my own wedding because she decided to order food I'm allergic to. FML

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biggary19 3

Thursday 24 March 2011 0:04

stand up to the bicth now unless u wanna hear her shit 4 the rest of ur life

chosha_fml 26

Thursday 24 March 2011 0:06

Have a smaller wedding and tell her that you can't accept her help if it's conditional. This isn't the way to start a marriage, with her asserting her authority over your decisions.

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penelopeboythorn 0

Sunday 27 March 2011 15:10

oh hell no. you have to stop that. hopefully you will only marry once. make sure it's the wedding you and your husband want to remember.

certified_camel 0

Monday 28 March 2011 4:12

lol

Professor59 2

Tuesday 29 March 2011 0:00

Just say (as a team) that it's the bride's day, period. But I don't think any of it will matter because: 1. She will never change. 2. Your fiancee is a hopeless wimp. And what if it's the bride's mother? Well, then why would a man give a crap about wedding planning? That's what bride's mothers are for. In which case, not a FML.

MistyLazuli 0

Saturday 2 April 2011 4:41

Tell her2bugger off,it's not HER wedding!&if she wants2take her$bak let her hav it&don't invite her unless ur spouse stands up2her!Trust me,if u don't set ur boundaries NOW she will be dominating u4the rest of ur life.&if ur partner doesn't stop it now they'll allow it in d future2&ruin ur marriage.

jj03_fml 0

Wednesday 6 April 2011 3:40

smile and punch her in the face...she can be in charge of that.

GrandpaSmith 4

Sunday 10 April 2011 1:11

Elope! And have a small, quiet reception on your own terms when you return. If you don't establish right now who is getting married and who should MYOB, you will have a lifetime of similar incidents ahead of you and very likely a painful divorce. If your fiance won't agree to elope, dump him now while you don't have to pay a lawyer to do so. A little pain and firmness now will avoid a lifetime of pain later.

MustangMan29 13

Sunday 24 April 2011 8:01

yell her to go **** herself

Leftieswillrule 3

Monday 20 June 2011 4:01

I'm confused. gender roles and tradition dictate that the bride's family pays for the wedding and the groom does not care about the planning and arrangements further than the guest list and the cake. unless this is some progressive, new age wedding (in which case you're ******), something is wrong

blinkingstarlet 15

Monday 26 September 2011 21:49

welcome to the 21st century... we like to stick with the rules set up in the early 20th century which state that men and women are now equal. they even let ladies work now!