By drbckflps - 18/12/2014 00:48 - Australia - Mount Gravatt

Today, my mother-in-law asked for a copy of my son's death certificate so she could have her week-long island beach holiday classed as bereavement leave. FML
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I haven't read all the comments yet but thank you for your condolences. This is indeed the grandmother of my son and no, she didn't take the holiday as a way of grieving - it was purely opportunistic. She wasn't even polite to us at the funeral: her words to me were, "In six months when I get back you'll have forgotten this whole thing ever happened." Very disappointing. Thank you all again. I'll reply again when I get a chance to read some more comments.

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That's horrible:( I'm sorry for your loss!

Everyone can grieve differently, but that just seems a bit heartless and opportunistic. I'm sorry for your loss OP, I can't imagine how that feels.

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Why isn't she there with you mourning her grandson? What a terrible person. Sorry OP

I'm sorry for loss. I hope your MIL comes to her senses.

Some people are assholes. Sorry for your loss.

That's horrible. I'm sorry for your loss

I think it's also kind of sad that an employer would ask for this. Can't she just send the obituary? For those who are actually grieving, this seems incredibly sensitive and a lot to ask at a delicate time.

That's what we told her to do and what she ended up doing.

That's absolutely awful. I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. I can't imagine losing a child.

It's incredible how heartless and disgusting some people can be! I'm so sorry for your loss. May your child rest in peace

I can't believe how heartless some people can be. Just horrible. Anybody who voted YDI on this one needs their head to be examined.

There is a special level of evil living inside of your mother in law. I am terribly sorry for your loss OP.