By Stag - 07/04/2017 05:43
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Sounds like she's trying to tell you something. She's saying goodbye.... :-(
Opinions CAN change. Especially if a person is raised hearing, "You'll want them when your older," and other bullshit all their life. If this is the first time she's been in a parenting like role, it might have been the first time she realized that she doesn't want to be a parent. It still sucks that you spent that much time with someone with divergent desires, but better to find out now than later, as thin of a silver lining as that is.
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Opinions CAN change. Especially if a person is raised hearing, "You'll want them when your older," and other bullshit all their life. If this is the first time she's been in a parenting like role, it might have been the first time she realized that she doesn't want to be a parent. It still sucks that you spent that much time with someone with divergent desires, but better to find out now than later, as thin of a silver lining as that is.
It's a shame but respect her wishes and find a girl that wants to be a Mom. Better to find someone that really wants kids than have it forced on her and she end up resentful...