what a closeted fag.

@ #268, As gay as you may think he is, there is no need to use disparaging epithets. The same goes for you #266. LAME! Consideration FAIL.

ha it would be interesting if that was how you found out he was bi XD

i think your man might be gay.

WHAT THE ****~!!!

Isn't that every girl's dream?

you should have included whether or not you did it!

Wow:Closet Fag got yourself a ctach their partner.. FYL indeed

@JuJuBeeSunshine: I give you credit for putting up such a defence toward SO many people on here! But to most (myself included), your argument may just seem a way to excuse many black women for having HIV/AIDS. When it comes down to it at the end of the day, black women, white women, ANY women, have the choice to sleep with or not to sleep with their other. Maybe the problem isn't the men on the "DL"....but the promiscuity of the african american women!

@276 Go read articles. Check the stats. If were an evenly distributed number of women in all ethic groups with HIV/AIDS, I'd bite, but there is a disproportionate number of black women with the virus. Secondly, the "DL" isn't so much of a secret anymore, as black men (such as J.L. King) have exposed this lifestyle and blamed their behavior on other people and entities. However, more importantly, if I'm married to my husband, why should I be worried about being infected with HIV or ANY STD for that matter? Why should I have to use protection with my husband for reasons other than not wanting to get pregnant? These women are sleeping with their boyfriends, fiances, and husbands who are sleeping with other men. Again, research the stats. Read some articles and journals about the "DL." It's very real, and it's killing our people. It's time to get real.