By Irene_19 - 16/07/2016 01:23 - United States - Minneapolis
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Do you have the contact of anyone else that lives near him? As someone who was in an LDR for 3 years, I can understand how terrifying that must be.
Ever heard of the slow fade or ghosting? Long distance relationships are very difficult, this maybe a blessing in disguise.
Don't stop trying for at least a couple more weeks. After that he's either dead or dead to you. Try to find his name in an obituary somewhere to make sure it isn't the former.
Hey guys OP here :) So to answer to some of your comments: #1: I don't really know any of his family except one but I haven't asked for their contact info which I highly regret rn tbh. Also we haven't been dating that long I'm still overly worried about him even though it hasn't been 3yrs. #2: I was actually thinking the same thint but he's really not that type of person. He actually is back but hasn't contacted me yet and if he continues to do that then I'll continue to think this relationship is over... Again -.- #3: I stopped trying after a week of trying but I started again because there is also a chance that something happened and he wasn't just ignoring me as a way to end our relationship. For a whole week I've been searching the news in his state for deaths, car crashes or any of the sort that would result in deaths or someone being hospitalized every few hours but his name hasn't popped up. I didn't think of searching obituaries but after reading your comment I went ahead and did but thankfully his name wasn't there. I honestly knew he was alive but I wanted to make sure nothing bad happened. So I honestly don't know what to do or think of this, all I honestly want now is to get a clear explanation, I don't care anymore if he's cheating or wants us to be done then fine a clean break up would be great. If that's not the case then I wanna know what happened, so I'm just waiting for that.
Forget about him & go live your life. Who knows, you might even meet someone who actually replies & responds to you
Google him. I had that happen years ago, thought he broke up with me by breaking contact. nope, found his obituary.
I'm in a LDR myself and I got a shiver down my spine just from reading this. Get hold of anybody you can in connection to him, wether that's his friends or, even better, family. Check all of his social medias also. Good luck, OP. Sending lots of love and best wishes!
This happened to me back in March. She suddenly dropped contact after 4 1/2 years of dating and 10 years of friendship. I know the feel OP, stick in there.
I'm sorry that happened to you as well even though it seems to be much worse than mine since it's been 4 and 1/2 years. But guess who updated their facebook yesterday stating "I'm back"? that's right, him. I'm still kind of shocked he didn't feel obligated to use even 30secs of his time to text to either break up with me or inform he won't be able to reach out to me in x weeks but I guess I'm suddenly not important to him at all now.
Well I hope you move on with your life at this point. If he wanted to reach out to you he would've by now, and honestly, it sounds like you're better off without him.
They could have had their phone break or taken away don't lose hope
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Do you have the contact of anyone else that lives near him? As someone who was in an LDR for 3 years, I can understand how terrifying that must be.
Forget about him & go live your life. Who knows, you might even meet someone who actually replies & responds to you