The problem here with all the talk of double standards and "OH IF IT WAS A MAN IT WOULD BE OK WHY NOT A WOMAN?" nonsense is that men and women have different breeding strategies, which govern our sexual activity. Since men do not have control of a uterus, the place where the fetus actually gestates, it is impossible for a man to truly know if a woman is carrying HIS child, which is why he sleeps with as many women as possible, to maximize his potential of conceiving a child with half of his chromosomes. A woman, on the other hand, has absolute selectivity. Choosing whom to sleep with gives her total control of her own breeding strategies; she can be reasonably sure that any given pregnancy is with a given man. When she sleeps with men out of control, she effectively waives that right. Men call her a **** because if they sleep with her -- really the biological imperative to reproduce -- they will never believe any child is theirs. Women call her a **** because 1. they are in competition for viable sperm with her, and calling her a **** is a way of associating themselves with trustworthiness, which is important for attracting a man -- actually rated the most desirable quality in a woman, by men, and 2. because she has given up a unique sovereignty over her reproductive habits all women inherently have, and in doing so diluted her control as now men may expect her to put out like the **** did. This isn't my opinion, this is psychology and biology. No matter how progressive we get as a society we will not be able to overcome the fact that at the end of the day we *are* animals, and beholden to their instincts and habits. I see that most of the people defending her are also women, have feminine user names, etc. It's unsurprising as they too are probably "*****" and want to defend themselves by proxy in defending her. Again, this is the science of psychology and biology speaking, not any opinion of mine.

hmmm.. keep your legs closed every once in a while.. that might help

You are my hero. Seriously. people are so freakin uptight and self-righteous. Do what you want and let them sit there and be akward.

She can sleep with who she wants, yes, but then you can't bitch about the consequences. Like it or not, sex might have meant more to at least one of the guys in the car, so what about their feelings? Also guys talk as well, there is no way that if they were all close enough to be riding in the car together she could expect them to never find out. As someone noted, statistics are not in her favor that these are the only guy friends she slept with. And for the sexist arguments, yes, unfortunately there is a double standard lots of times, but I think a lot of people would still agree that if a guy slept with several of his female friends, he would be a man ***** (thats kind of the definition). We can be here arguing all day over this, but IMO she can do what she wants, but if you are not going to fully think about the consequences before you nail at least three of your guy friends then sorry, but its your fault.

First of all, to the original poster, that sucks. While I don't know the circumstances, but it does seem odd that you would sleep with all 3 and be friends with them too. I don't know the whole story there though, so I won't judge, and neither should the rest of the commentors either. And secondly, to all of you people out there doing all of the name calling, lay off, seriously. I would be willing to bet that almost none of you actually know any of the people on here aside from the little screen name next to the comment they posted, so how can you possibly judge any of them on their lives and actions? You're all acting like you're so perfect and these others are basically the drudge of the earth. I'm sure each and every one of you posting these negative comments has something that you've done or haven't done that you feel ashamed of, or some secret you're hiding from the rest of the world that you're too embarrassed to admit. I know I do, but at least I'm not cowering behind my keyboard badmouthing someone who decides to own up to what they did, like this OP has done. So before you go and call her a ****, or call someone else who has commented a manwhore, or whatever other degrading term you can think of, take a good long look in the mirror and ask yourself if you like what you see.

Four of you in the car and most of the drive spent in awkward silence? You guys sound more like acquaintances than friends. (******* an acquaintance doesn't make them a friend).

it sounds like someone has daddy issues.

YDI for being a ****.

you're just lucky you didn't cause more drama than an awkward silence. that kind of behavior can get really sticky if someone cares more than they should about the freind sex, jealousy and fighting and whatnot. so what i'm saying is, you're lucky your friends don't really care about you or have respect for you or want to date you. lucky you for being no catch at all.

SLUTTTTTTTT.