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By poor forever - 10/09/2016 09:45 - United Kingdom - Leeds

Today, I got my first ever paycheque from my first job. Only my dad suddenly decided to start charging me not only rent, but I have to contribute to the gas, electric, water, food and internet bills. After tax I have £3.57 to spend on myself this month. FML
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It depends on how old the kid is. If OP is an adult and not attending school they can contribute money to pay house hold expenses.

So we have kids just to we can charge them when they're older? I'm sorry but who the **** does that to their kids? Worthless trash people that's who.

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It's called responsibility and being an adult. Quit the complaining and grow up. Everybody has to pay bills and nobody wants to.

So we have kids just to we can charge them when they're older? I'm sorry but who the **** does that to their kids? Worthless trash people that's who.

It depends on how old the kid is. If OP is an adult and not attending school they can contribute money to pay house hold expenses.

If I still lived at home after graduating high school my parents told me they'd do the same to me. My graduation gift was luggage.

I agree with #2, people who have the mentality that kids need to suddenly start paying their parents are inconsiderate as hell. My parents will be okay even if I'm 30. They'll be there. I'm working to become a doctor and they said they'll always support me. That's not to say that I'm not working and helping by trying to pay off as much of my own fees as possible. But there's no bullshit like "rent". My dad worked hard like hell to save money for my brothers and I. Long hours. That's what you call a dad. After I get my higher education and high paying job, I'll happily spend on them too. The shit my parents do for me, makes me proud. Not this garbage "rent" bullshit. Think about it, the person could become a damn doctor but you burdening them with more bullshit just demotivates them more. Most of my friends who have great potential have no time to think about higher education or a high paying career because parents like these destroy their career and life. And I'm seriously surprised by these people's thinking. And then they wonder why they end up in retirement homes during their old age. Who will wanna keep you after that? In my family and everyone I have known, parents have made great sacrifices for the kids. And in return, the bonding is amazing. And in the parents' old age, they still have their kids around who then pay for everything. That's called being a "family". As soon as you start bringing money into relationships, you're happily destroying it. This same exact crap destroyed my wonderful boyfriend's life. So screw all of you who destroy people even before they emerge. I feel bad for your kids. And I'm sure most of you will disagree with me but whatever, this exact situation has destroyed my boyfriend and many of my friends. And it hurts like hell seeing them fall.

So you think OP has worthless trash for parents for trying to teach their kid the value of money and some responsibility? If that's what they are doing. If they are taking the money because they feel they deserve it for raising a kid then I agree with you

Sorry man but demanding rent and payment is not the ONLY way to teach "responsibility about money". I'm not irresponsible with money just because my parents have taken it upon themselves to help me through until I'm successful. I know how valuable money is because my dad worked hard everyday, (even when my parents were low on money) to save money for us kids. He slept 4 hours some days, he worked hard like hell. He communicated all that with me (as I grew up), and so my siblings and I learned what the value of money is.

#8, if the parents JUST started trying to teach their kid "the value of money," when they're almost/are an adult, they utterly SUCK as a parent. You teach kids stuff like that throughout their childhood and teen years, not suddenly use them as a way to increase your own disposable income while pretending it's "for their own good."

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I got my first paycheck at 16, which isn't an adult. Also adults can't live on less than $4 for a whole month. Their dad is being rather unreasonable to leave them with so little.

The fact that it's OP's first job ever leads me to believe that OP is around 15-16 years of ago. Any parent charging their child rent and utilities at that age is disgraceful. I can understand having them pay for their own phone and entertainment, but RENT? I'm fairly certain in most places they are legally obligated to provide food and shelter for their children until they are 18. A child's job is to enjoy being a child before life bitch slaps them into reality. No need for a parent to do that to them early. Sickening.

sounds like my dad, except I'm old enough to pay rent so I didn't mind helping but I did mind him trying to find any reason he could to make me give him more money. " well your sister doesn't have a job so you need to help cover for her and her kids" -_-

I really wish OP's age was included. If he's 15, the dad is a deadbeat asshat scamming money off his child. It's the parent's responsibility to put a roof over their minor child's head, not the other way around. If OP is 30 and only just now getting a job, well... welcome to the adult world and congratulations on no longer being a leech. (Better late than never.)

Your dad is doing you a favor by teaching you to mind your responsibilities before wasting money on bling or parties. How else are you going to learn to keep yourself out of debt? Suck it up and build that work ethic! Besides... living under his roof means living by his rules.