By Anonymous - 31/12/2010 07:43 - United States

Today, I found a note in my boyfriend's car from another girl telling him she hoped he liked the flowers. These were the same flowers he gave me while I was in the hospital, just after having his kid. FML
I agree, your life sucks 41 459
You deserved it 4 481

Same thing different taste

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'His' kid? Not 'our' kid? Hmm, someone isn't happy, although receiving flowers doesn't mean that he automatically is cheating, you know.

I can just see the comments now: "YDI! *****. That's what you get for having a baby out of wedlock." LMAO. Yes, because it's a proven scientific fact that marriage stops cheating.

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strawberrycancer 0

How do you know they were the same flowers? And YDI if you don't put out.

Um...she was having his kid. I don't think her not putting out is an issue here.

strawberrycancer 0

Takes 9 months to have a kid, you know.

#48 Does this mean when you are pregnant, you will consistantly put out to the father of your child? Do you think all pregnancies are easy? That you wouldn't have pains or mood swings? I think you put out to feel better about yourself.

48, women often still have sex while pregnant, you know.

What the hell? --"YDI if you don't put out?" Clearly, you have no self respect for yourself or more importantly for other females. Your mother would be so proud.

thrAsHeRr9081 16

Strawberries having cancer is a depressing thought 

strawberrycancer 0

Oh. my. god. Everyone is so serious! Lighten up, and learn to detect a troll.

ever think maybe she bought them/delivered them to u cus he was too busy to get them himself? and maybe she was just saying she hopes they were nice flowers to give to u and hopes he likes them. girls...always thinking so negative..

sounds like he's not really interested in the girl and cared enough about you to give the flowers to you.

I was kinda thinking this too... it's possible he's just a jerk and was cheating, but I keep thinking that if he was cheating, 1) he wouldn't give u the evidence of it and 2) he would want to keep any gifts he received for himself... although maybe not on flowers.

maybe he doesn't like to shop and ask the girl to shop for him...

This may be a long shot here, maybe he he got the flowers from a girl that likes him, but he never did anything with her. I've received flowers from guys that I've never slept with. I also agree with the other people saying that maybe a friend that is a girl chose the flowers for you, because he didn't have time, or he wanted to get you flowers that you would love and thought she had better taste then him. OP, I recommend talking to him about it and stop jumping to conclusions.

What I love is how every one here jumped to the same conclusion! Seriously there isn't enough detail here to suggest the BF was cheating. Maybe the OP is paranoid?

He is a jerk. He may be cheating but unless there is substancal evidence, you can't exactly jump to conclusions. She has a right to be upset. That was a cheap move on his part. And no, they dont have to be married. People don't need to be legally bound to have the capability to commit to eachother.

I'm sorry, OP. I know EXACTLY how you must feel.

girl run my husband did the same thing to me when out child was born & I chose to believe him that it was nothing and I spent the next 20 years in he'll run girl, run