By Notdoingthatagain - 10/07/2016 07:35
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What a loser, you should be glad you're not in the fiancée's position, this sucks for you, but it's worse for her. You should tell his fiancée, she should know what an asshole he is, especially since she'll be having his child. She deserves to know what kind of person the father of her children really is.
What a piece of shit, you should figure out some way to tell her
What an asshole. He doesn't deserve to have a fiancé. Cheating bastards make me sick.
Sounds like their having s shotgun wedding to me
No do not tell anyone. Life is messy and you have no right to take away anyone's happiness. There are a minimum of three people who will be hurt by you blabbing your mouth off here. People who have done you no wrong.
What so she should just not tell the fiance and let her marry the asshole? What about the finances health and safety? What if he gets an STD and then the fiance and him have sex? That puts the unborn baby's heath at risk. Your advice is horrible. Also OP won't ruin anyone's happiness by telling, the guy already ruined it when he stuck his dick into someone else.
She won't ruin anyone's happiness by "blabbing." The happiness was already gone the moment the asshole decided to cheat on his fiancée and mother of his children. The only reason the fiancée is still happy is because of an illusion, a lie, the idea that her relationship is built on loyalty, trust, honestly and commitment, which is simply not the case anymore. The one positive thing that the OP will bring back to this poor woman is honestly, by telling her exactly the type of man her fiance is. If you base your use of honestly on whether or not the truth hurts someone, well then you must be a very dishonest person. It's also idiotic to base telling the truth on whether or not a person has done you wrong, you tell the truth simply because it's the truth. And you know what, one person did do the OP wrong in this situation, the guy, he lied by omission by not telling her he was a in a committed relationship, and made her an unknowing accomplice to his shitty antics, he brought her into his lie and put her in a horrible position.
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What a loser, you should be glad you're not in the fiancée's position, this sucks for you, but it's worse for her. You should tell his fiancée, she should know what an asshole he is, especially since she'll be having his child. She deserves to know what kind of person the father of her children really is.
What a piece of shit, you should figure out some way to tell her