eh. shouldve planned that out more. have friends there or not at his place

That sounds more than just emotional abuse. What a horrible person to do that to someone they claimed they loved. I can't imagine what being in the relationship was like. Good for you OP and stay strong. Know the warning signs of people like that and find yourself a better partner when you're ready. I wish you all the best with your new life!

That's extremely shitty OP. I would say retaliate but he seems like the kind to get physical with you and I would not want any harm. Clearly he is trash and it's good that you are done with him. No one deserves to be treated like that. Personally I probably would've thrown the trash back at him or at his front door with all the shit smeared on his door, but that could've caused a physical fight.

I know I'm that one guy but i could imagine someone throwing a trash can at some one in a cartoon and me laughing my ass off

Just shows what kind of person they were in the first place. Good on you for leaving the dirtbag! Hope everything goes well for you here on out.

That sucks, but you're free and he's a childish douche. DO NOT GO BACK. Under any circumstances, no matter what he says. Stay strong. I'm proud of you.

Save this post, save the comments on this post, as a reminder for the rest of time to never go back to him

Cops now

I'm fairly certain that could count as assault and possibly littering... You should go to a police station and ask if it would be possible to file a report. On to more important things- good for you for leaving! It was very brave of you, and you did the right thing, even if there are times it doesn't feel like it. You deserve to be happy, and acknowledging that you wouldn't be happy with him in the long term was very courageous of you, and the first step in finding your happiness. Remember- his actions reflect the things wrong with him, not any fault in your or on your behalf. Keep moving forward; even if you only take one step in a day, it's another away from the cage.