The happy couple

By Sexless - 18/06/2025 13:00 - United States

Spicy
Today, on our honeymoon, my wife still won't have sex with me. When I brought it up, she started crying and said she's still "not ready" for sex. We're both in our late twenties. When the fuck will she be ready? FML
I agree, your life sucks 423
You deserved it 209

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Time for therapy sounds like she has unresolved trauma!

Putting pressure on her isn't going to help. Being patient and understanding will help her feel safer. Her crying clearly shows she cares about your needs and she stresses over displeasing you. Cuddle and kiss her without the expectation of sex and tell her you'll listen to any concerns she has about intimacy. She'll let you know when she's ready to take the next step.

Comments

Time for therapy sounds like she has unresolved trauma!

tiptoppc 19

It’s called religion and those raised within ones that promote chastity before marriage don’t fair well on the first night as the guilt you had cult-programmed into you doesn’t disappear just because the marriage happened. Speaking from not only experience but also from others i know who had to deprogram themselves from the religious doctrine b.s.

Putting pressure on her isn't going to help. Being patient and understanding will help her feel safer. Her crying clearly shows she cares about your needs and she stresses over displeasing you. Cuddle and kiss her without the expectation of sex and tell her you'll listen to any concerns she has about intimacy. She'll let you know when she's ready to take the next step.

winterbell 4

Hopefully she didn't just marry you for stability.....who wouldnt wanna have sex with thier husband...unless they have someone else on the side