Preemptive strike

Smart guy, he's thinking ahead.

I see it as being kind of thoughtful. If he knew he was going to break up with you in a year anyway, maybe he was trying to spare your feelings. Usually the longer a couple is together, the closer they are. It's possible he just didn't want you to become more attached then you already are. I don't really understand why he would break up with you just because he was going to college. It seems like you will be better off without him. You'll find the right guy soon.

it's just an excuse, he could get himself together to "dump" you

While that sucks, I don't think your bf did anything wrong. What's the point in dating him just for another year when you'll break up anyway? Why not spend the year getting over him and maybe finding somebody who won't be leaving? I don't see the point in dating somebody you know you're going to break up with anyway. I think he did the right thing by not leading you on another year knowing he was going to break up with you anyway.

and im willing to bet that he wont even be there for long

He needs time to heal his broken heart, the man thinks ahead.

JEHughes- cute dog ^_^

amm... i did that with my ex boyfriend lol

in his defense, would you rather wait a year, get more attached to him then have him leave suddenly?

that sucks, not, u deserved it

get over it. women don't need men to make them happy, men are douche bags who only want to stick their penis in your ******. so that's why he dumped you, so he can practice for college. sucks to suck, YDI.

don't worry. my ex broke up with me 9 months before I leave for the navy.....