By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
See, this is one of the very few exceptions I'll make in regards to abortion, it is okay for this situation. IN MY OPINION
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Show it anywaywhy would you even go that far on your second date? YDI
This is rape. If you discussed condoms before having intercourse, him removing the condom without your consent or knowledge is a form of rape. He engaged in a sexual act that you would not have consented to if you knew. I suggest you contact the authorities, get tested for all STIs, especially HIV, and pregnancy. If this guy doesn't believe in condoms, who knows what he has? I think if there is a hell there is a special place reserved for these types of assholes.
haha damn u *** on the second date we should chill ;)
I marked both because ******* on the second date is never a good idea, but what he did was disgusting and he needs to be medicated. That's some sick shit.
A couple of things strike me here: We don't know if the couple in question has been casually seeing each other or "talking" before actually going on dates. Although sleeping with someone on the second date may seem a little forward to some people, it's unfair to judge someone else who does it. It's even more unfair to just tell the girl she is a ***** when the guy jumped in bed just as quick. What the guy did was very wrong and is inexcusable, but there are steps the girl could to to ensure this stuff doesn't happen if they are going to be sexually active, which is why female condoms and birth control were invented.
He's a nutter, run like hell!!
It feels like you're ******* a Ken doll. How could you fail to notice it NOT being like that?
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.