By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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I wouldn't say YDI, but you really shouldn't be having sex on the second date. Still, it was stupid of him, and you should totally dump his sorry ass. And in that slight chance that you get pregnant, make the bastard take care of the kid.
that's disgusting that he did that to you. something similar happened to me once; go buy the morning after pill NOW. expensive... but worth it.
Morning after pill (also known as Plan B). It's a strong dose of birth control that will greatly reduce the chance you get pregnant. And tell your guy to get tested before he even TRIES to remove a condom.
Second date and you are sleeping with him? YDI for being so easy. Learn some self respect.
Hmm. This is both an FYL and a YDI. FYL because the guy obviously has more than a few screws loose. But YDI for sleeping with him on the freaking SECOND DATE. Man, people are such utter ******** these days. And I say that about *both* genders.
first of all, there cannot be guy *****. he can use girls, but that does not make him a **** because he has a penis. only girls can be ***** because we have a vag. second, almost everyone has a one night stand. its not that big of a deal, she doesnt deserve a kid for that. third, your supposed to laugh at fmls, not argue and get mad at them. stop taking everything so ******* seriously and laugh once in a while. kay? thanks.
To reference knocked up...... Did you think he was wearing a dick-skin condom? YDI for being a moron.
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.