By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States

Spicy
Today, I hooked up with the guy I've been seeing. Apparently he doesn't believe in condoms and took it off without my knowing; I didn't realize until after. When I asked him in horror why he would do such a thing, he said "I love you. I want you to have my child." It had been our second date. FML
I agree, your life sucks 78 493
You deserved it 39 317

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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....

Top comments

I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.

Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.

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lol i thought hooking up was only like kissing...... or is it sex too????? can someone explain to me what it really is?!?!?!

Lillejo 0

How in heavens name did you manage to not notice him taking the condom off?

momothepony 0

why did you even have sex with him if it was only your second date?

you hooked up with him on your second date?

katiebethss 0

91, actually, humans and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure. 52 is half right... people should probably not have sex if they aren't ready for a baby, but people still have sex for fun, and think of babies as an afterthought. if someone doesn't want a child, they should think before gettin it on.

katiebethss 0

and it doesn't seem like she did for those of you saying she knew him before that. she said "it was our second date" at the end making sound an awful lot like she was implying that she didn't know him very well. sex should be with somone you love, in a perfect world. but obvz our world sure ain't perfect. that being said, he should not have taken it off like he was trying to trick her. that's horrible...

It's called Plan B. They make it for situations just like this one.

afallingstar 22

ydi for having sex on the second date

metro_mello 0

ith my puthy..i can do what i want! i thiink u kinda deserved it i mean on the second date thats a little bit to raunchy for me

theonlysweetpea 10

I don't cry often. In fact I can count each time on one hand. But this is a time I would totally break down in tears!