By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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marinewife88
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how could you not tell the difference between him wearing a condom and him not?? i'm confused. i think you're lying...there's def a difference in the way it feels...
I can tell only because it hurts me for some reason lol. I am usually only with people I have known for awhile (my fiance for 5 years) and I am on the depo shot. We do not use condoms but we both got tested before we got together.
_bbailey
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-.- creeper much? YDI, maybe not have sex on the second date, and MAYbe get to know him. Now you get a creeper's baby, congrats. And how can you not tell the difference? its not that hard, without a condom feels better.
Wow, I've never been so disgusted with the comments on FML as I am right now. Calling this girl a **** is inappropriate; she tried to be responsible (re: wear a condom) and have a good time and it turns out that her trust was misplaced. I would be interested in seeing how many of the people claiming she deserved it have ever (a) are still virgins- in which case they have no right to judge this girl, having never been in a situation like that before- or (b) how many have had a one night stand in their lives- in which case they're being hypocrites. Furthermore, I don't want to be "that bitch" who pulls the sexism card out now but I seriously doubt that anyone would call a guy who had sex with a woman on the second date a man-*****; they'd probably congratulate him. The girl is in control of her sexuality and suddenly that makes her a "****"? I don't think so. What, you guys have NEVER made a decision and regretted it later on? Tell you what, next time you come on here with yet ANOTHER lame, moronic whiny story filled with emo self-righteous teenage angst about how you were drinking underage or partying or whatever and how your parents caught you I'll say YDI right off the bat and give no thought to your side of the story either.
alli1
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sex on a second date? can u say desperate and trouble??
livexlaughxlove1
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What's wrong with having sex on the second date? Well, the fact that even if you use protection or are on birth control pills or anything short of having your tubes tied, the man having a vasectomy, or the man/woman being infertile, there is still the chance of getting pregnant. Yes, the girl thought that the guy had on a condom but even with a condom she still could've gotten pregnant. She should be ready for the consequences of her actions. YDI.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YDI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
monnanon
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nothing anywhere says that she is not ready for the consequences. She has not said she is pregnant, all she is worried about is the fact that this guy did something like that to her. By your reasoning we should avoid sex even with contraception cause we might get pregnant, do you actually know how hard it is to get pregnant. Its actually fairly difficult as there is only a few days where you can concieve. I can understand you making this comment if she had decided not to have sex with a condom but she did. It was not her fault that it was removed without her knowledge.
MORNING AFTER PILL RIGHT THIS ******* SECOND. NOT KIDDING. RIGHT NOW.
stryker0530
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karen its only cuz i luv u. even tho it was only our second date i felt a connection 2 u. and my penis is 2 small
smartie447
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YDI for hooking up with a guy on the second date!
You deserve it for One) Having sex on the second date, and Two) NOT NOTICING HIM TAKE THE CONDOM OFF.
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.