By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States

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Today, I hooked up with the guy I've been seeing. Apparently he doesn't believe in condoms and took it off without my knowing; I didn't realize until after. When I asked him in horror why he would do such a thing, he said "I love you. I want you to have my child." It had been our second date. FML
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....

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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.

Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.

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you put out that fast? ya, your fault.

Serves you right for doing it on the second date and relying on only a condom. For gods sakes take pills AND use condoms.

isabel22 0

your fault for having sex on the second date

u shouldnt have had sex with him on ur 2nd date anyways!!!!

thats why you shouldt have sex on the second date because you can't really know if that person would actually do it

masokati250 0

omg that sucks so bad!!!!! hopefully he stays

Wow. Great job. Sleeping with someone you really don't know, being only the second date and all, and now you could possibly be pregnant and/or disease ridden:) But don't worry, because he loves you. lol good job. you my dear, are a winner:)

Apparently Sonia does love you...on the second date. Get her while she's in the first trimester lol

I'm sorry and that sucks, but that's what you get for having sex on your second date..

sex on the second date? man, ydi for doing that