By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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omgwtflolz
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wow i hate when people rush like that. my last bf like never saw me and he was txting me and stuff and he said he loved me like two days in. and he was also telling me how much he cared about me,yet when i told him i was upset he wouldnt do anything about it. which is one of the reasons i broke up with him
CharlieDudek34
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SoniaLovesYou, I'm so sorry that that this guy did this to you. It's just such a horrible thing for someone to do to another person. I hope that any std tests you choose to get come out clean and that you don't get saddled with an unplanned pregnancy. That's so scary that he would do that and say that. I don't know the specific laws in North Carolina, but his actions might be illegal, so you may be able to press charges, if you felt that would be a good choice for you. I wish you the best of luck in regards to all of this.
WowzerMyLife01
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PLAN ******* B PILL ASAP
ydi for having sex on the second date
xosugar13ox
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wtf does "ydi" Mean.!??! Someone please send me a private message explaining. lol. Thanks. :D
neptuneflytrap
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Please ignore all the people saying you deserved this. No one deserves this. Also, a few whiners tried to say that "she shouldn't have blah blah" and "female birth control etc," and they need to shut the hell up. It is not solely a woman's responsibility to use birth control, especially when they had obviously agreed on him using it. Quit attacking this woman, people. She is the wronged party, here. He took that condom off WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT. That's called rape. To anyone who automatically wants to disagree with that, rape is not all violence and force. She consented to sex with him under certain circumstances and safety precautions. He took advantage of the consent she did give and had sex with her in a way that she did not consent to, which absolutely counts as rape. Consent for protected sex does not give him the green light to start doing whatever he wants when her clothes are off. This is rape, and is very much a FYL, to say the least. No one deserves to be taken advantage of like that. I fell very badly for you, and I hope everything turns out ok.
ok thats just freaky. seriously for your sake i hope you were joking. and no ofence. but who has sex on the secon date?! like seriously thats just screaming ruin my love life!!!! but hopes it wored out ok
all_american_grl
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dude thats ****** up!!! wat an ass!!! is he carzy!!! 2nd date!!! WTF!?!?!? can you say stalker status.....
wow.. that's constructive.
That there is precisely why they invented Plan B...and restraining orders...
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.