just because it was their second date does not mean she has only met him two times or that she has only known him since just before the first date. Some people know people for months even years before they begin dating. You cant say you deserve it for having sex when she deemed herself ready, you do not know her or him or the things that led up to that desicion being made. that said this FML is not about the fact that she had sex, its the fact that she tried to be safe and regardless of the fact she is on the pill he had a condom on which he took off without her knowledge and continued to have sex with her. That could have happened after three years of dating the guy. He had forced something upon her which was different to what they had agreed too. Its a damn shitty situation, stop making the OP feel worse for something that would have happened no matter how long she waited to have sex with the guy.

YDI for having sex on the second date. All of you who defend this action seem to be pushing the opinion that it's normal and ok to do something like that, and it seems to me that you are just making sure everyone is convinced that YOU are also right for doing so or wishing you could. You say that "that's the way it is these days, grow up," or "she doesn't deserve to have her whole life ****** up from one little mistake," but the facts are that just because something is one way these days does not make it right or optimal, i.e. national debt, global warming and humans' continuing contribution thereto. One mistake can destroy, or end, a life or more than one. Just because "these days" it's a common mistake doesn't mean that those who get the most unlucky results did not deserve the consequences of their actions. Our actions always have consequences whether we see them or not, and these consequences are not limited to only ourselves. The one whose life is most definitely going to be destroyed is the resulting baby. It has a batshit insane father and a mother who makes stupid decisions that the world tells her are OK.

seems like another "be my baby's daddy" fml XD fyl for liking a psycho!!

YDI. I'm sure it's already been said, but sex on the second date...You obviously don't know the guy all that well. And that is a risk when having sex. STDs and pregnancy...if you aren't ready for the possible consequences, don't do the action.

sounds like another "be my baby's daddy" fml XD (mommy is your casr) fyl for liking a psycho!

idk why it got reposted, the other was missing the last part :S case*

Let the girl do what she wants, don't judge her on having sex with someone soon, damn. I love how everyone here acts like they have never made a mistake. This is what the day-after pill, or an abortion, is for. Pretty simple solution to the problem.

not sure what to say.hope you're not pregnant

Wow, what an ass. Three words I have for you: Morning after pill.

Hmm... I skipped all the other comments because I don't have that kind of time to read them all, but like... Is it just me, or does it seem like having a child should be a mutual decision? Especially since the man doesn't have to go through the pains of childbirth and pregnancy, he should at least ask her. Which is why the "be my baby's daddy" FML is different. That woman obviously wanted a child, but this woman who wrote the FML didn't. That guy is a jerk, and you should most likely stop seeing him, OP. And if you do wind up having a kid, make him take care of it.