how weird is your foot fetish? my husband hates feet and would have a panic attack if he finds any toe nail clippings on the floor. as in he has to go somewhere in the yard to clip his toenails and prefers everyone to do the same as stray clippings can fly anywhere. some people are seriously anti feet.

That really sucks, OP. It was really immature of her, she should've respected the fact you were trusting her enough to tell her.

She left you for a foot fetish? It's not like you're into ******* horses or something like that. Find a nice girl who is more open minded. There are enough (dating) sites with a wide variety of fetishes where people meet, google it!!

That's nasty! I walked away from a 6 year marriage for that same disgusting reason. You can't expect her to stick around if it's something that repulses her. As much as he has a right to his fetish, she has a right to disassociate herself from something she finds repulsive. How can anyone say she should has just gotten over it. Would you want to be with somebody that every time you look at them all they feel is repulsed. She has a right to be happy too.

As someone who has the same fetish, I don't understand why people keep saying ydi.... Most people don't realize it but, for a lot of us its not exactly being turned on by feet, its being able to literally love someone from their head to their toes

You don't need to be with someone like that who will just walk out and forget you. So sorry, OP. :(

A foot fetishist is, to me at least, probably the most normal fetishist ever. There's way more extreme things than this. Hope your girl turn around OP, and if not she wasn't worth you.

Well here goes I understand how devastated you are op. I have a foot fetish too and you probably took it personally how she reacted but plz remember it isn't your fault.

I applaud your courage in telling your ex about your fetish, you should be able to express yourself in a relationship, especially in the bedroom. Everyone has different kinks that need to be respected. That being said, I don't think I could stay with someone who wanted to explore a foot fetish. I absolutely detest feet. I don't like foot rubs, I hate pedicures, so it extends to my feet too. I just don't like feet at all. This is a part of me as much as it is a part of someone else to have a foot fetish. Yes, the ex responded in an extremely immature way, but that sounds more like she was waiting for an excuse, rather than she was being close minded. If the roles were reversed, I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't share in my fetish because exploring a fetish is completely natural and shouldn't need to be ignored. It sucks what happened OP, but I'm sure you will find someone you are sexually comparable with. You deserve to find someone who will explore your desires with. Don't let what happened cause you to shy away from telling future partners, and telling them earlier on could cause less heartache. Based on a lot of these comments, it sounds like it is a fairly common fetish, so you may not need to look too far for a comparable partner :)

im sorry she was judgemental....